I will just say that I think we should be careful about making assumptions about what A.J's intentions are/were, it can start to sound like idle gossip. Perhaps he did come here with honest intentions, or perhaps he didn't. I've met lots of people who process the world/information in a very different way than I do and it can sound like they're trying to cause trouble from my perspective, but that doesn't necessarily mean what I think they're saying reflects reality.
That doesn't mean I agree with A.J's approach to these things either though, nor does it mean I agree with how he handled things in the end. But what A.J's words mean to him, and what they mean to us are not necessarily the same thing, and vice versa.
There is a quotation from "How to cook your life" that seems applicable here...
In this case replace the cup with the perceived meaning behind someone's words.
Apologies for going over.
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Evan,
Sat today
That doesn't mean I agree with A.J's approach to these things either though, nor does it mean I agree with how he handled things in the end. But what A.J's words mean to him, and what they mean to us are not necessarily the same thing, and vice versa.
There is a quotation from "How to cook your life" that seems applicable here...
When we look at a cup that is set down between two of us, we have the feeling that we are looking at the same cup, though actually, that is not so. You look at the cup with your vision, and from a certain angle. Moreover, you see it in the rays of light and shadows that come from your side of the room. This applies equally to me as well. In a very rough sense, we proceed to separate the reality of the situation by entertaining the idea that we both see the same cup.
Apologies for going over.
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Evan,
Sat today
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