Practice without a teacher or sangha
Hi,
True life changing enlightenment (decreasing of suffering) occurs for many individuals with alcoholism in Alcoholics Anonymous. This occurs with a variety of teaching situations.
The person learns from the group of recovering alcoholics (there are no recovered alcoholics, just the practice of recovery).
The person learns from a sponsor (someone in recovery who forms a more personal relationship with the sponsee than the group and shows them how they got sober. Like a golfer who has a good golf swing and teaches a student to swing the golf club too).
The person learns from a door knob as the door knob does not inflict pain on itself and has a lot to teach by just being a door knob (this is not a joke and this teaching has been used by me and others).
The person may also go to one or 2 meetings and decide they can do it on their own and simply quit.
The person may go for years then practice sobriety on their own without problems.
The person may learn to moderate and drink without pain.
The person uses humanity in general as a teacher of recovery.
One or more of the profound life changing (decreased suffering, enlightenment) situations usually occurs as described above and several do not require but a door knob or no teacher at all.
In Zen and Buddhism, a teacher is a stepping stone and another attachment that causes suffering. A teacher is to be discarded when the costs of having a teacher outweigh the benefits. Different individuals reach this point at different times. Some never do and never become free.
The point of a teacher is to not have a teacher. Examine your teacher’s relations with her teacher.
Hanging out with friends with similar interests having a beer at a local pub is a totally different matter. One of the friends may be more charismatic and tell better stories so we listen to this friend.
In summary, a teacher is not needed for a substantial number of people from the get go. A teacher may even retard progress by fostering reliance when none is needed. In the beginning I asked Jundo “how to do this?” and he basically told me to get lost but hanging out and having a drink at the local pub (sangha) was ok.
Gassho, Jishin, __/stlah\__
Hi,
True life changing enlightenment (decreasing of suffering) occurs for many individuals with alcoholism in Alcoholics Anonymous. This occurs with a variety of teaching situations.
The person learns from the group of recovering alcoholics (there are no recovered alcoholics, just the practice of recovery).
The person learns from a sponsor (someone in recovery who forms a more personal relationship with the sponsee than the group and shows them how they got sober. Like a golfer who has a good golf swing and teaches a student to swing the golf club too).
The person learns from a door knob as the door knob does not inflict pain on itself and has a lot to teach by just being a door knob (this is not a joke and this teaching has been used by me and others).
The person may also go to one or 2 meetings and decide they can do it on their own and simply quit.
The person may go for years then practice sobriety on their own without problems.
The person may learn to moderate and drink without pain.
The person uses humanity in general as a teacher of recovery.
One or more of the profound life changing (decreased suffering, enlightenment) situations usually occurs as described above and several do not require but a door knob or no teacher at all.
In Zen and Buddhism, a teacher is a stepping stone and another attachment that causes suffering. A teacher is to be discarded when the costs of having a teacher outweigh the benefits. Different individuals reach this point at different times. Some never do and never become free.
The point of a teacher is to not have a teacher. Examine your teacher’s relations with her teacher.
Hanging out with friends with similar interests having a beer at a local pub is a totally different matter. One of the friends may be more charismatic and tell better stories so we listen to this friend.
In summary, a teacher is not needed for a substantial number of people from the get go. A teacher may even retard progress by fostering reliance when none is needed. In the beginning I asked Jundo “how to do this?” and he basically told me to get lost but hanging out and having a drink at the local pub (sangha) was ok.
Gassho, Jishin, __/stlah\__
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