Hi Joyo,
A western definition of the "little self" from wiki:
The self is the subject of one's own experience of phenomena: perception, emotions, thoughts. In phenomenology, it is conceived as what experiences, and there isn't any experiencing without an experiencer, the self. The self is therefore an "immediate given", an intrinsic dimension of the fact of experiencing phenomena. In some other trends of philosophy, the self is instead seen as requiring a reflexive perception of oneself, the individual person, meaning the self in such a view is an object of consciousness.
Regarding the "Big Buddhist Self":
I think that all words are representations of reality, not the real deal. This being so, anything that can be said about the "Big Buddhist Self" is not it. The Dao # 1 explains it well. If it can be said, thats not it. Why? Because they are words. The "Big Buddhist Self" and the "little self", if it can be conceptualized, is not it because it relies on words to be "understood." How do you explain with words the taste of an apple to someone that has never tasted an apple? You can try, but the best way would be by taking a bite out of it. But even then, their taste buds are different than yours, they may be allergic to apples, they may be blind or deaf and miss the "real" or "universal" experience of bitting into the apple. Even apples lack a western "little self" or a "Big Buddhist Self."
So, how can someone talk about the "Big Buddhist Self" without being wrong? They can't. Anyone that tells you they understand the "Big Buddhist Self" is wrong. Now, with this in mind, Zen teachers do the best they can with what they got - words and actions. It takes a lot of a skill to talk about something that can not be talked about. Zen teachers are dummies and they know it. Students are dummies but do not know it. Thats the difference.
With regards to your case, trying to explain the concept of the "Big Buddhist Self" to a non buddhist is a tall order. So, good luck.
Gasho, Jishin, _/st\_
A western definition of the "little self" from wiki:
The self is the subject of one's own experience of phenomena: perception, emotions, thoughts. In phenomenology, it is conceived as what experiences, and there isn't any experiencing without an experiencer, the self. The self is therefore an "immediate given", an intrinsic dimension of the fact of experiencing phenomena. In some other trends of philosophy, the self is instead seen as requiring a reflexive perception of oneself, the individual person, meaning the self in such a view is an object of consciousness.
Regarding the "Big Buddhist Self":
I think that all words are representations of reality, not the real deal. This being so, anything that can be said about the "Big Buddhist Self" is not it. The Dao # 1 explains it well. If it can be said, thats not it. Why? Because they are words. The "Big Buddhist Self" and the "little self", if it can be conceptualized, is not it because it relies on words to be "understood." How do you explain with words the taste of an apple to someone that has never tasted an apple? You can try, but the best way would be by taking a bite out of it. But even then, their taste buds are different than yours, they may be allergic to apples, they may be blind or deaf and miss the "real" or "universal" experience of bitting into the apple. Even apples lack a western "little self" or a "Big Buddhist Self."
So, how can someone talk about the "Big Buddhist Self" without being wrong? They can't. Anyone that tells you they understand the "Big Buddhist Self" is wrong. Now, with this in mind, Zen teachers do the best they can with what they got - words and actions. It takes a lot of a skill to talk about something that can not be talked about. Zen teachers are dummies and they know it. Students are dummies but do not know it. Thats the difference.
With regards to your case, trying to explain the concept of the "Big Buddhist Self" to a non buddhist is a tall order. So, good luck.

Gasho, Jishin, _/st\_
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