If this is your first visit, be sure to
check out the FAQ by clicking the
link above. You may have to register
before you can post: click the register link above to proceed. To start viewing messages,
select the forum that you want to visit from the selection below.
I am surprised and sorry to hear this, but I fully respect that decision (must have been hard).
I hope everything is fine and you will still participate actively in our sangha.
All the best for you and thank you for your practice and what you have been giving to this sangha!
Gassho, Shawn Jakudo Hinton
It all begins when we say, “I”. Everything that follows is illusion.
"Even to speak the word Buddha is dragging in the mud soaking wet; Even to say the word Zen is a total embarrassment."
寂道
I think I understand what you are saying, but for newer folks it may sound like you are saying we should not allow any feelings of sadness or loss come to the surface. I certainly am still upset, but as time has passed I know that different is something to be embraced. Yet now, so soon after the public announcement, are you saying people shouldn't feel sad or have a sense of loss? Speaking only for myself, I would think it counterproductive to think of these feelings, at least for now, as a source of joy.
Gassho,
Dosho
Originally posted by Taigu
you all seem to attend a funeral...MAYBE IT IS SOMETHING COMPLETELY DIFFERENT! COME ON GUYS, JUST ENJOY!
EDIT: I forgot to say what Yugen said so well...this is just my view, which may very well be deluded. So, that's why I asked.
Are sadness and joy mutually exclusive? I would think they travel in company..... emotions are not one-dimensional and do not have an inherently separate existence......
Just the opinion of a very new and deluded priest-in-training.
I just figured that a trainee does not enter the situation on a whim... it is a big life decision, and teachers do not accept anyone who approaches them as a candidate. So there is a certain investment of time and effort, and confidence..etc. It is just a change, people come and go, but it is not like changing your socks. Having no information at all it is only natural to imagine there must have been some difficult choices at some point... and maybe some sadness for someone.
Comment