A Little Assignment for Today: Tell Someone What They Mean To You

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  • Jundo
    Treeleaf Founder and Priest
    • Apr 2006
    • 40336

    A Little Assignment for Today: Tell Someone What They Mean To You

    Dear All

    A long time Leafer, someone I had not spoken with for some weeks, suddenly emailed me this morning the following:

    "I'm practicing gratitude by taking time to let the people in my life know how much they mean to me and how much they've impacted my life."

    He then proceeded to express some very nice feelings about me and this Community, which truly touched me. It was really nice. It also got me to thinking about what a nice thing it is for all of us.

    So, here is a little "homework" assignment for all Treeleafers: Tell at least one, and maybe several, people in your life what they mean to you, how they have impacted your life, and how much gratitude you feel. You can do so in person or, if not possible, by an email or on the phone. Call or write some folks "out of the blue" as a surprise. Do it today, or as soon as you have some time.

    Before doing so, of course, take a couple of minutes to really think about how this person has touched your life. Maybe it is something you will just realize now, thinking about it for the first time.

    I bet that you will make the person's day, and also realize a little more how much richer your life is because of such people. Tell a few folks in your life.

    If you want, please post here, in this thread, some stories about how it goes.

    Gassho, Jundo

    SatToday
    Last edited by Jundo; 05-02-2017, 06:10 PM.
    ALL OF LIFE IS OUR TEMPLE
  • Hobbie
    Member
    • Aug 2016
    • 48

    #2
    Originally posted by Jundo
    Dear All

    A long time Leafer, someone I had not spoken with for some time, suddenly emailed me this morning the following:

    "I'm practicing gratitude by taking time to let the people in my life know how much they mean to me and how much they've impacted my life."

    He then proceeded to express some very nice feelings about me and this Community, which truly touched me. It was really nice. It also got me to thinking about what a nice thing it is for all of us.

    So, here is a little "homework" assignment for all Treeleafers: Tell at least one, and maybe several, people in your life what they mean to you, how they have impacted your life, and how much gratitude you feel. You can do so in person or, if not possible, by an email or on the phone. Call or write some folks "out of the blue" as a surprise. Do it today, or as soon as you have some time.

    Before doing so, of course, take a couple of minutes to really think about how this person has touched your life. Maybe it is something you will just realize now, thinking about it for the first time.

    I bet that you will make the person's day, and also realize a little more how much richer your life is because of such people. Tell a few folks in your life.

    If you want, please post here, in this thread, some stories about how it goes.

    Gassho, Jundo

    SatToday
    _/|\_

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    • Mp

      #3
      Lovely practice to engage in, I will do this today. =)

      Gassho
      Shingen

      s@today

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      • pdharness
        Member
        • Jul 2016
        • 20

        #4
        I love this practice, going to start right away.

        Gassho
        Paul

        Sattoday

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        • Ed Cross
          Member
          • Apr 2017
          • 2

          #5
          Thank you, will do immediately! _/\_

          SatToday

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          • Sekishi
            Treeleaf Priest
            • Apr 2013
            • 5675

            #6
            Very nice. Thank you Jundo (and anonymous Treeleafer)!

            Also, as a little reminder, if you want to share a story from this experience (or any other practice or engagement in the world), but wish to do so anonymously, you can invoke Gojo Bodhisattva by sending a message to: gojo@treeleaf.org.

            Gojo-san will share your story in the Engaged Center.

            Gassho,
            Sekishi #sat
            Sekishi | 石志 | He/him | Better with a grain of salt, but best ignored entirely.

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            • Tairin
              Member
              • Feb 2016
              • 2824

              #7
              I will do so today but just to add to this.....

              Just last week I was moved to tell my son (age 13) just how profoundly he has affected my life. I am known to be pretty guarded in my emotions so am sure I surprised him. I actually teared up a bit although I don't think he noticed. We hugged afterward. I don't want him and I to become distant as he progresses through his teenage years so reaching out to him is important to me.

              Gassho
              Warren
              Sat today
              泰林 - Tai Rin - Peaceful Woods

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              • Kyonin
                Treeleaf Priest / Engineer
                • Oct 2010
                • 6749

                #8
                Thank you for this Jundo.

                Gratitude practice is part of my daily life. But speaking directly to people is something else. Will do this too.

                Gassho,

                Kyonin
                SatToday
                Hondō Kyōnin
                奔道 協忍

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                • Catherine
                  Member
                  • Apr 2015
                  • 46

                  #9
                  Thank you Jundo. A lovely way of putting compassion into practice by enabling others to appreciate their importance to us. In Scotland we are stereotypically awful at expressing warmth and at both giving and receiving praise. I shall nevertheless brave the suspicious glances and follow the example you propose!
                  Gassho
                  Cathy
                  Sat today


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                  Gassho,

                  Cathy

                  Sat today

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                  • Shoka
                    Member
                    • May 2014
                    • 2370

                    #10
                    Jundo,

                    What a wonderful practice. I love to write cards and send postcards to people, something we rarely receive anymore. I have a few letters that need to be written.

                    Gassho,

                    Shoka
                    sattoday

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                    • Joyo

                      #11
                      Thank you, Jundo. What a good idea!

                      Gassho,
                      Joyo
                      sat today

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                      • Risho
                        Member
                        • May 2010
                        • 3179

                        #12
                        Great idea!

                        Gassho

                        Risho
                        -sattoday
                        Email: risho.treeleaf@gmail.com

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                        • Jundo
                          Treeleaf Founder and Priest
                          • Apr 2006
                          • 40336

                          #13
                          I decided that, in our family, we are going to make a dinner of this.

                          Not just going around the table once, we are going to go around and around for the whole meal, each person in the "game" thinking up something new to say in gratitude to each other person at the table.

                          Gassho, J

                          SatToday
                          ALL OF LIFE IS OUR TEMPLE

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                          • Taiyo
                            Member
                            • Jul 2016
                            • 431

                            #14
                            Beautiful reminder!! Thank you, Jundo

                            Gassho,
                            Taiyo

                            SatToday
                            太 Tai (Great)
                            陽 Yō (Sun)

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                            • Jyukatsu
                              Member
                              • Nov 2015
                              • 283

                              #15
                              Thank you Jundo; I have lots of gratitude to express
                              Gassho,
                              Jyūkatsu
                              sat today
                              柔 Jyū flexible
                              活 Katsu energetic

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