Metta for All in the Orlando Shootings

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  • Jundo
    Treeleaf Founder and Priest
    • Apr 2006
    • 40347

    Metta for All in the Orlando Shootings

    We sit and offer Metta for the victims of the Orlando shootings, their family and friends, and all victims everywhere of violence.

    We especially note all heinous crimes in which people are targeted for who they are, their race, beliefs, ways of life.

    Let us continue to work for a world without hate and violence.

    -----

    And it is also a good time to remind folks of this, as I have already been asked today:

    It is taught by most Buddhist Teachers I know that we should sit and offer Metta and the like for all harm-doers and potential harm-doers as well. Why?

    In Buddhism, we tend to see even the violence doers as victims of greed, anger and ignorance. We tend to avoid saying there are "bad people", and merely that there are people who act badly due to their own suffering inside. Thus, I can wish even a killer "peace" and "contentment" in Metta, with the idea that if they truly knew peace and contentment, there would be no violence. If we fail to do so, we are actually nurturing anger and divisive thinking in our own hearts.

    It may help to understand this by considering that what we are actually doing is sitting and offering Metta hoping for an end to the cycle and ripple effects of anger and division that caused this act and might be born and continue from this act, long after this one act and even though the shooter is dead or apprehended. We are offering Metta here, not to the harm-doer as a person who harms, but rather to end the Karmic causes and effects that led him there, filled him or her, ripple onward from this, and may lead to more violence in the future. It is much as if we were to offer Metta for a destructive Tsunami wave that has done great harm, hoping for a calming and healing of all that continues from that storm, the violent hurricane conditions that first caused the wave and may lead on to do further harm if the storm persists.


    We sit and offer Metta for a future time and world in which such events will not happen, and none of this will be necessary.

    Gassho, J

    SatToday

    PS - Let me add that, even though Buddhists tend to say there are no "bad people," only "bad actions", and that even the harmdoer is a "victim" of greed, anger and ignorance, I believe that most Buddhist Teachers of all schools will allow that there is still reason to stop or punish criminally the wrongdoer via prison or the like, or even to use violent force ... even (although not all Buddhists agree on this) to use deadly force ... to prevent likely future violence by the person or a group. Most (not all, and there are some prominent absolute no holds barred pacifists among Buddhist Teachers) would say that this is in keeping with the Precept to Preserve Life because the deadly force is being used to preserve the lives of even more innocent victims. At the same time, we must do all we can to minimize violence in response, and we should try not to act out of anger in our own hearts.

    In this case, it looks as if it was the act of one individual ... or a small group of extremist people. We must not overreact. If we overreact, or feel anger, we may also end up targeting innocent people for who they are, their religion, race, beliefs, ways of life. As well, it is best to turn the other cheek where possible, offer flowers for bullets, turn swords to plowshares ... "respond" with gentleness and not always with bombs. Perhaps we too the latter too often.
    Last edited by Jundo; 06-13-2016, 03:24 AM.
    ALL OF LIFE IS OUR TEMPLE
  • Geika
    Treeleaf Unsui
    • Jan 2010
    • 4984

    #2
    Gassho, thank you.

    Metta
    Sat today
    求道芸化 Kyūdō Geika
    I am just a priest-in-training, please do not take anything I say as a teaching.

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    • Mp

      #3
      Thank you Jundo ... yes, this is so very sad and I cannot wrap my head around such hatred. It has just been a sad day with metta, love, and tears.

      Deep bows to all who have suffered from such acts of violence.

      Gassho
      Shingen

      s@today

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      • Toun
        Member
        • Jan 2013
        • 206

        #4
        Thank you Jundo,

        Metta to all the victims, families and loved ones.

        Gassho,
        Mike

        Sat2day

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        • Jundo
          Treeleaf Founder and Priest
          • Apr 2006
          • 40347

          #5
          Please also remember that this is not about one group of people ... it is about one extremist and disturbed individual of a certain religion, not about all who share that religion or the religion itself. If we fail to remember this, if we overreact or feel anger ourself toward a whole diverse group of people, we may also end up also targeting or victimizing innocent people for who they are, their religion, race, beliefs, ways of life. Let us also offer Metta for all Muslim people who must be equally ashamed and scarred by this tonight.

          Finally, please recall that terrorists wish us to feel terror. The best and healthiest response is not to give them what they are hoping for ... (Unfortunately, it seems I post this message too often):

          SIT-A-LONG with JUNDO: The Wise Response to Terror - Staying Calm -
          If I may offer a viewpoint that may sound a little cold at first hearing ... One of the primary tools we have to respond to "terrorism" is, as best we can, not to feel "terrified" and not to overly react. I know that is hard, and not our usual way. For example, 911 was a great horror, with thousands


          I realize that much of what I have written above is completely upside down and opposite from how most folks usually think about and react to such events these days.

          Gassho, J

          SatToday
          Last edited by Jundo; 06-13-2016, 02:39 AM.
          ALL OF LIFE IS OUR TEMPLE

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          • Theophan
            Member
            • Nov 2014
            • 146

            #6
            Jundo
            Thank you
            I sat today to offer Metta to all who are suffering from the Orlando tragedy.

            Gassho
            Sekishi
            (Theophan)
            Sat Today

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            • Washin
              Treeleaf Unsui
              • Dec 2014
              • 3796

              #7
              Thank you, Jundo.
              Words fail. Horrible act... Metta to all who suffer in all forms.

              Gassho
              Washin
              just sat
              Kaidō (皆道) Every Way
              Washin (和信) Harmony Trust
              ----
              I am a novice priest-in-training. Anything that I say must not be considered as teaching
              and should be taken with a 'grain of salt'.

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              • TyZa
                Member
                • May 2016
                • 126

                #8
                Originally posted by Jundo
                We are offering Metta here, not to the harm-doer as a person who harms, but rather to end the Karmic causes and effects that led him there, filled him or her, ripple onward from this, and may lead to more violence in the future. It is much as if we were to offer Metta for a destructive Tsunami wave that has done great harm, hoping for a calming and healing of all that continues from that storm, the violent hurricane conditions that first caused the wave and may lead on to do further harm if the storm persists.
                Thank you, Jundo. It is heartbreaking. Today, I clearly saw more seeds of hatred sown from the effects of this terrible action resulting in harmful generalizations, fear, and knee jerk anger reactions (though all understandable). Much metta to all the victims of yesterday's awful tragedy, to acts like this that happen every day that don't get the media attention they deserve, and to the suffering and ignorance of all beings that cause these actions (though it's still hard for me to separate the "being" from the "action" but I am trying. "Love the sinner, hate the sin" or maybe more properly in Buddhist phrasing: "Have compassion for the wrong-doer as a person, offer metta to his wrongful actions and its effects).

                Deep Bows,
                Tyler

                SatToday
                Last edited by TyZa; 06-13-2016, 09:09 AM. Reason: clarification

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                • Byokan
                  Treeleaf Unsui
                  • Apr 2014
                  • 4289

                  #9
                  Greed. Anger. Ignorance. Violence. It's all too much, too overwhelming, too sad, too horrible. Incomprehensible.

                  The world cries out for compassion. The cries all sound together, they are one call, one voice, one bell ringing, it echoes on and on.

                  Look into any pair of eyes, touch any hand, look in the mirror, you will find it there.

                  Let this suffering open the heart, not close it.

                  Gassho
                  Byokan
                  sat today
                  展道 渺寛 Tendō Byōkan
                  Please take my words with a big grain of salt. I know nothing. Wisdom is only found in our whole-hearted practice together.

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                  • Myosha
                    Member
                    • Mar 2013
                    • 2974

                    #10
                    Metta to all.


                    Gassho
                    Myosha sat today
                    "Recognize suffering, remove suffering." - Shakyamuni Buddha when asked, "Uhm . . .what?"

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                    • Entai
                      Member
                      • Jan 2013
                      • 451

                      #11
                      Metta to all who suffer.

                      泰 Entai (Bill)
                      "this is not a dress rehearsal"

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                      • Kyotai

                        #12
                        Thank you Jundo.

                        Gassho, Kyotai
                        ST

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                        • Risho
                          Member
                          • May 2010
                          • 3179

                          #13
                          Originally posted by Jundo
                          In this case, it looks as if it was the act of one individual ... or a small group of extremist people. We must not overreact. If we overreact, or feel anger, we may also end up targeting innocent people for who they are, their religion, race, beliefs, ways of life. As well, it is best to turn the other cheek where possible, offer flowers for bullets, turn swords to plowshares ... "respond" with gentleness and not always with bombs. Perhaps we too the latter too often.
                          I think this is such a critical point. Thank you Jundo. Metta to all.

                          Gassho,

                          Risho
                          -sattoday
                          Email: risho.treeleaf@gmail.com

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                          • Troy
                            Member
                            • Sep 2013
                            • 1318

                            #14
                            Metta for All in the Orlando Shootings

                            This breaks my heart. I pray and sit for all that suffer from this tragedy. Thank you for your words Jundo. I completely and whole heartily agree.

                            I hope that one day all people of all faiths will realize love is not a sin no matter what shape or form it takes. I pray love will win over hate and division in our hearts.

                            Edit: I apologize if I offend anyone with my statement. I heard a lot of hate speech on youtube today. I know the vast majority of people in all faiths are not extreme in their views of the LBGT community. I respect their beliefs even if they are not the same as mine as long as it does not lead to hate and violence.


                            ..sat2day•合掌
                            Last edited by Troy; 06-13-2016, 04:16 PM.

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                            • FaithMoon
                              Member
                              • Jul 2015
                              • 112

                              #15
                              For those who haven't read Sharon Salzberg on Metta practice, she is very good. Here is a link http://www.vipassana.com/meditation/facets_of_metta.php

                              An excerpt:

                              After I had spent these six weeks doing the metta meditation all day long, my teacher, U Pandita, called me into his room and said, "Say you were walking in the forest with your benefactor, your friend, your neutral person, and your enemy. Bandits come up and demand that you choose one person in your group to be sacrificed. Which one would you choose to die?"

                              I was shocked at U Pandita's question. I sat there and looked deep into my heart, trying to find a basis from which I could choose. I saw that I could not feel any distinction between any of those people, including myself. Finally I looked at U Pandita and replied, "I couldn't choose; everyone seems the same to me."

                              U Pandita then asked, "You wouldn't choose your enemy?" I thought a minute and then answered, "No, I couldn't."
                              FaithMoon
                              st
                              sat today!

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