I can appreciate the benefits, and inquiry into motivations is (almost) always good.
But I've also seen cases where the "calm, rational" approach to disagreement comes off as very smug and actually the person is using it to put themselves in a position of higher moral or whatever authority with or without their knowledge. Conversely, I think "violent" communication (having it out...) can be healthy sometimes if its treated the right way, but that's just me.
I don't know. It's complicated

Skye
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