The Houses We Live In

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  • Jundo
    Treeleaf Founder and Priest
    • Apr 2006
    • 40868

    #16
    Hi ForestDweller,

    (Would you mind to sign a human name to your posts, and to put a picture with a human face? It it helps us look eye-to-eye a bit).

    You ask a very interesting question!

    I grew up in the city. My family was not rich, although they managed to get me through school and we still had all the modern, Western comforts such as television, air conditioning (it was Florida, after all) and kitchen appliances, plus a car (although always 10 years old). I came to Japan with all my belongings in two suitcases, and lived for 20 years in a tiny tumbledown Tokyo apartment that most Americans would think of as being about the size of their living room ... so small that the washing machine was in the hall (still, we had one), no cars (just a rusty bicycle) ... something much like this with washer outside (this being Japan, nobody would steal it), and I would say the toilet and bath in the diagram are about actual size ...



    It was lovely, it was home. I would not have changed a thing.

    When our son was born, we thought of a place to raise the kids. We moved about an hour from Tokyo where house prices are down to earth, into a town which is in the Japanese countryside (yet the space program is here, and many of Japan's robot factories, so it is a great mix of the old and new). We bought a farm house, with a big Japanese garden, a farm field in the back (we even have an old pig house ... though no pigs) and a garage for my two cars (no trains run out here, and I plan to run those cars into the ground). There are trees and the elementary school is a 5 minute walk down the street. Unfortunately, my "two suitcases" have now morphed into more modern "junk" than I ever need, and I would need two big trucks to haul it out of here ... The washer and drier, now all computerized with microchips to get our socks and underwear perfectly crisp, is no longer outside. (Though, in all fairness, most of the "junk" seems to belong to my wife and kids, and I am wearing about the same socks and underwear as 10 years ago ).

    It is lovely, it is home, it is high maintenance. I would not change a thing.

    I like to say that I am not too attached to it though. These buildings, all old and made of wood, are constant maintenance (we just had some earthquake damage fixed last month, and termites did their thing). Should it fall down tomorrow, I really feel that I would both shed a tear ... yet let it go! (It came close during the great earthquake a few years ago, when the roof tiles fell like rain, the floor shook like a boat in a storm, and the nuclear meltdown sent us running ... with two suitcases ... to the other side of Japan). For those of us with some "stuff" and some money in the bank, we have to be really careful that we do try to maintain simplicity, are not overly attached and greedy, and truly live with the "if it weren't here, I wouldn't mind" attitude. I feel I have that attitude but, looking around my room, I know that I could live more simply than I do.I don't think we live in an opulent way (by modern Western standards), but I live like a king by the standards of ancient India, China or the 'Third World' and "stuff" seems to build up slowly with every trip to the store. I have a computer, an e-book reader, new blue jeans, a smart phone and flat screen tv in my electrically heated office, and it is a long long way from a grass hut in the mountains living on berries.

    I would not change a thing. Our True Home is all around.

    Here is a video of Treeleaf Tsukuba, made before we moved in and were thinking of buying the place (I made it to show family back home). An old style Japanese house with lovely wood. There is another video of the Japanese traditional carpenters building what is now the Zendo in the barn (I say "barn", but actually it was the building for the farmers to ready seeds and pack the vegetables). We have an outhouse too, although not much used.

    I recently read that Thoreau was not quite so isolated at Walden as one would assume ...



    One might live like Vimalakirti, the great Lay Bodhisattva ... but what one does with one's wealth and resources makes all the difference in the world:

    His wealth was inexhaustible for the purpose of sustaining the poor and the helpless. He observed a pure morality in order to protect the immoral. ... He had a son, a wife, and female attendants, yet always maintained continence. He appeared to be surrounded by servants, yet lived in solitude. He appeared to be adorned with ornaments, yet always was endowed with the auspicious signs and marks. ... He engaged in all sorts of businesses, yet had no interest in profit or possessions. ... He was honored as the businessman among businessmen because he demonstrated the priority of the Dharma. He was honored as the landlord among landlords because he renounced the aggressiveness of ownership. http://lirs.ru/lib/sutra/The_Vimalak...tson,1997.html
    One can live in the city, and be boundless in the heart. One can live as a hermit alone in the distant mountains, yet be a prisoner of one's mind. I think this is what Master Sekito's Grass Hermitage may Teach us ...

    Welcome to our book club, where we travel through helpful books on Zen without getting lost in words.


    Gassho, Jundo

    Enjoy the videos and music you love, upload original content, and share it all with friends, family, and the world on YouTube.


    The carpenter (Mr. Aita) and architect (Mr. Ushioda) are working hard for many weeks to convert an old wooden building at Treeleaf in Japan into a place for ...


    SatToday
    Last edited by Jundo; 03-10-2015, 05:24 PM.
    ALL OF LIFE IS OUR TEMPLE

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    • ForestDweller
      Member
      • Mar 2015
      • 39

      #17
      Hello Nindo.

      Originally posted by Nindo
      Good for you, ForestDweller. Do you have a first name?

      Gassho
      Nindo
      sattoday

      You asked for my first name. It's Catherine. Warm regards from ForestDweller.

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      • ForestDweller
        Member
        • Mar 2015
        • 39

        #18
        You asked for ForestDweller's name; it is Catherine. Sorry, I cannot provide a picture because I have no camera, not even on my phone. Thank you for your very thorough response, especially for your thoughts on your living conditions. I enjoyed reading.

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        • ForestDweller
          Member
          • Mar 2015
          • 39

          #19
          I resonant with your point of view. Nicely done!
          ForestDweller (Catherine)

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          • Jundo
            Treeleaf Founder and Priest
            • Apr 2006
            • 40868

            #20
            Originally posted by ForestDweller
            You asked for ForestDweller's name; it is Catherine. Sorry, I cannot provide a picture because I have no camera, not even on my phone. Thank you for your very thorough response, especially for your thoughts on your living conditions. I enjoyed reading.
            Hi Catherine,

            Do find a face on Google images that is you or close to yours, and that will serve for now. Anyway, that person is you and you are her.

            Google Images. The most comprehensive image search on the web.


            Gassho, Jundo
            ALL OF LIFE IS OUR TEMPLE

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            • KellyRok
              Member
              • Jul 2008
              • 1374

              #21
              Hello all,

              Very interesting thread!

              Anshu, I can very much relate to this.

              My work arrangements for over 30 years now have seen me constantly move from place, both domestically and internationally, so every place has needed to become 'home' very quickly. And then, maybe 2 years later, become a memory just as quickly. I have learned much about 'not clinging' from living through that process.
              Due to my husband's job, we travel around the U.S. a lot...we move nearly every 2 years or so like you. We started out renting small 1-2 bedroom apartments, filled them with used furniture and borrowed things. Then as our family grew we became homeowners and began accumulating a few more things of our own. The first home was roughly 1800 square feet (kind of small by US standards), yet it is the home my children remember most and have the fondest memories of. We had a large, spacious house before we moved to where we are now - we miss that home. It has been an adjustment for my kids, but they are accepting it well...after living in a hotel room for almost two months this summer, our current house appears huge! We've spent countless hours and dollars making each house a home, only to have to leave it behind a short time later. We've learned to purge unnecessary items, not holding onto things is important because there is a limit to what we can move.

              What is comes down to is a home can be anywhere if you make it so in your heart. Space and things are irrelevant as long as you feel safe and loved...

              Of course, we've also found that having a park, being in a forest, or other outdoor natural space is much needed to make us feel completely home.

              Gassho,
              Kelly/Jinmei
              sattoday

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              • ForestDweller
                Member
                • Mar 2015
                • 39

                #22
                Dear Jundo,
                I am not familiar with Google images nor how to post a picture on the wonderful Treeleaf site. I will do my best to discover a way, but please do not count on my success; I am very very poor at technology. ForestDweller/Catherine

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                • Mp

                  #23
                  Originally posted by ForestDweller
                  Dear Jundo,
                  I am not familiar with Google images nor how to post a picture on the wonderful Treeleaf site. I will do my best to discover a way, but please do not count on my success; I am very very poor at technology. ForestDweller/Catherine
                  Hello Catherine,

                  Here is some info on setting up your Avatar ...

                  Here is a walk through in creating or changing your Avatar:

                  1. Click on "Settings" in the user profile section.
                  2. Scroll down to the "My Settings" box and click "Edit Avatar" in the My Profile section.
                  3. Click the "Use Custom Avatar" radio button.
                  4. Enter a URL in the Option 1 box if the custom image you wish to use is on a website. Ensure that the image meets the requirements for size listed below the box. If the custom image is stored on your computer, click the "Browse" button in the Option 2 box, select the file and click "Open."
                  5. Click "Save Changes" to see the avatar as it will appear on the site. The avatar will appear alongside your user name when you post a message on the site. New avatar's retroactively appear with previous posts.

                  Q: I cannot upload my picture for my profile because it is too large. How can I re-size my picture to conform to the forums image upload requirements?

                  A: A quick and easy way to do this is to visit http://shrinkpictures.com/create-avatar/
                  and follow the instructions given there. Also if you have re-sized your image and are certain it meets the 80 px by 80px @ 72 ppi requirements yet still cannot upload your image you can visit http://imageshack.us or http://www.flickr.com/ or any image hosting service and upload your image to be hosted, for free, there. and use the "Link to off-site Avatar" option

                  Let me know if you run into any troubles or if you have any questions, please feel free in contacting me anytime.

                  Gassho
                  Shingen

                  SatToday

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                  • Jundo
                    Treeleaf Founder and Priest
                    • Apr 2006
                    • 40868

                    #24
                    I believe we see you now Catherine. Lovely eyes.

                    Gassho, Jundo
                    ALL OF LIFE IS OUR TEMPLE

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                    • Mp

                      #25
                      Originally posted by Jundo
                      I believe we see you now Catherine. Lovely eyes.

                      Gassho, Jundo
                      Yuppers, you did it Catherine. =)

                      Gassho
                      Shingen

                      SatToday

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                      • Nindo

                        #26
                        Hi Catherine, welcome. We also have a thread for introductions.



                        Gassho
                        Nindo
                        sattoday

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                        • Ed
                          Member
                          • Nov 2012
                          • 223

                          #27
                          I just lost my house to foreclosure. We moved to smaller house and we feel so happy, or is it calm and at peace. Nothing else left to fight the bank and courts over. Done and gone!
                          I gotta say we were ready to let go but I never thought my mind would be so flexible, so ready to open.
                          Then the new place came, brighter, smaller with a huge yard for the kids (two grandsons not 2 and not 5.)
                          Let life pass you by, then live it to the max.
                          Thank you all for your practice.

                          Welcome Forest.

                          Gassho
                          Last edited by Ed; 03-18-2015, 04:24 PM.
                          "Know that the practice of zazen is the complete path of buddha-dharma and nothing can be compared to it....it is not the practice of one or two buddhas but all the buddha ancestors practice this way."
                          Dogen zenji in Bendowa





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                          • Jundo
                            Treeleaf Founder and Priest
                            • Apr 2006
                            • 40868

                            #28
                            Lovely attitude, Ed. Thank you for the Teaching. You may have lost a house, but it seems your home is warm.

                            Gassho, J
                            ALL OF LIFE IS OUR TEMPLE

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                            • Hotetsu
                              Member
                              • Jun 2014
                              • 230

                              #29
                              My wife, daughter, and I live in a small 2 bedroom house that we rent. It is frequently too small, the basement is freezing, and the furnace is as efficient as a B-52 (the plane not the band ). It is my home, simple and small. I love it. Home is where the heart (non-heart) is.

                              Gassho,
                              Hotetsu

                              #SatToday
                              Forever is so very temporary...

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                              • Kyonin
                                Dharma Transmitted Priest
                                • Oct 2010
                                • 6748

                                #30
                                Originally posted by Hotetsu
                                and the furnace is as efficient as a B-52 (the plane not the band ).
                                And here I am singing to the tunes of Love Shack and the Flintstones theme.

                                Need. To. Get. Them. Out. Of. My. Mind.

                                Gassho,

                                Kyonin
                                #SatTodayInTheLoveShack
                                Hondō Kyōnin
                                奔道 協忍

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