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  • drunkenboat
    Member
    • Aug 2014
    • 5

    Lay robes: playing house?

    Hi all,

    Last night I was having a discussion with a friend about zazen and my local zendo here in Madrid. He's interested in checking out the center, although of course there is some reticence there (remember your first time in a zendo? Awkward bows, unsteady feet, sideways glances to make sure you're doing everything right?).

    He asked me if everyone wore robes. I said, "the priests do, naturally. For everyone else it's optional." And that lead to further discussion on the merits -- or lack thereof -- of robes.

    I'm not a big fan of lay robes. I just don't see the point. First, they're expensive. I haven't seen robes sold for anything less than 200 dollars. They say you should get a kimono and wear that underneath, etc. I feel like this ties in a bit with the recent conversations about "White Trash Buddhists" and the economic divide. 200 bucks for some costume you wear for a few hours a day? In my book, that's a luxury.

    I think it's also off-putting for a lot of people, especially when they are just starting to investigate Zen. They might write off zazen as weird, anachronistic.

    I also feel that robes can be a bit like "playing house." In other words, I don't see it as rooted in any reality. It is vastly different from the clothes we wear out on the street -- something that was not the case for practitioners back in the day, when these traditions were forged. I think maybe a temptation might be to buy a robe and wear it, thinking that it will make you a "better", more "serious" Zen student. So you put on the robe, play house for a bit, then take it off and go out into the world, into a separate reality. Division.

    I don't see lay robes as so integral or useful to practice as, say, the zafu.

    I do believe that some Zen traditions are good, like the altar. I can appreciate the practice of offering a stick of incense, in prostrating myself before the Buddha on the altar and to the Buddha in me and in all things.

    But I think my 18 euro pair of yoga pants is a lot more practical for sitting than a 200 euro robe.

    I realize that there are many viewpoints on this, and I am sure that many Treeleafers wear robes when they do zazen. (I refer specifically to lay people, not to priests, who I think have other justifications for wearing robes.)

    I wanted to open up a thread to see what others think about this matter, because I think it is one of the truly important processes in the Westernization of Zen: filtering the Japanese cultural trappings from the essence of the teachings, separating the wheat from the chaff.

    So should lay robes make the cut?

    --David
  • Josan
    Member
    • Aug 2013
    • 137

    #2
    I feel that the use of robes is an individual decision. Personally, I am happy in my ordinary clothes when sitting. For me, there is then no real separation from my time on the cushion to the rest of my time, as I try to move seamlessly from one to the other. Well at least that is what I try to tell myself

    Gassho,
    David
    If you miss the moment, you miss your life - John Daido Loori

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    • Ryumon
      Member
      • Apr 2007
      • 1800

      #3
      It's just one of the many trappings that can be removed from zen to bring it up to date.

      Kirk
      I know nothing.

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      • Jundo
        Treeleaf Founder and Priest
        • Apr 2006
        • 40378

        #4
        Hello David,

        This came up on a recent thread, and I said (just my opinion on this, by the way, and to each their own heart) ...

        I have a question that I've been meaning to ask... and now, reading more about kesa and robes, it's probably a good time. I have a robe which I purchased online (a lay robe). It's the style used at Rochester Zen Center, if that helps. I never learned whether to fold it or hang it... so I hang it. Does anyone have thoughts or


        One certainly does not require a lay robe in order to Practice or sit Zazen (although some folks find that such accoutrements help place them in a certain sacred mood). One can Practice just as well in a comfortable set of sweat pants. In fact, one does not need the Koromo robes that the Priest wears in order to Practice. Sometimes when we hold Zazenkai, I am fine with a T-Shirt and even shorts as my own clothes!

        Nishijima Roshi, who was often seen in both the formal robes of a Soto Zen Priest or in a business suit (with Kesa), would sometimes say that our wearing traditional robes is just dressing up for Halloween like "old Chinese people from the Tang Dynasty".

        BUT, if one will wear robes ... best to fold them right!

        Gassho, J

        This is also related to how much of "Traditional Stuff" we wish to keep and how much to toss away, and how "Chinese/Japanese" one needs to be. Time for my perennial post on ... TURNING JAPANESE!

        ======================================

        This practice is not limited to any place or time ... we drop all thought of place and time. It certainly is not Indian, Chinese, Japanese, French or American. But, of course, we live in place and time, so as Buddhism traveled over the centuries from India to China, Japan, Korea and other places, it naturally became very Indian/Chinese/Japanese/Korean etc.

        But what of the cultural trappings?

        Must we bow, ring bells, chant (in Japanese, no less), wear traditional robes, have Buddha Statues, burn incense? ... All that stuff besides Zazen. Are they necessary to our Practice?


        No, not at all!


        We don't need anything other than Zazen, any of those trappings. In fact, they are no big deal, of no importance, when we drop all viewpoints in sitting Zazen.

        On the other hand, we have to do something, to greet each other somehow, read some words, dress some way. Why not do such things? As I often say, for example, we have to do something with our hands when practicing walking Zazen ... why not hold them in Shashu (I mean, better than sticking 'em in your pockets)? What is more, wearing certain special clothes and holding one's hands with a certain formality, placing a statue and burning incense can all work as points of focus to remind us of the specialness of this moment and Practice (no problem so long as we also learn the lesson that all the so-called "mundane" instants of life, great and small, are special moments, each a "sacred ceremony" in its way, from taking a bath to making a peanut butter sandwich for the kids).

        As well, there are parts of our practice which we do BECAUSE we resist (for example, when visiting a temple for Retreat, I usually put my heart fully into ceremonies and arcane rituals BECAUSE I resist and think some of it silly or old fashioned). Ask yourself where that kind of resistance is to be found (here's a clue, and it is right behind your own eyes).

        What is more, there is method to the madness, and many (not all) customs have centuries of time tested benefits ... embody subtle perspectives ... that support and nurture Zazen Practice at the core. Many parts of our Practice, though "exotic", are worth keeping, even if they strike someone as strange at first. Bowing, statues, rigid decorum in the Zen Hall and, yes, weird talks about Koans and arcane ceremonies all fit in that category. They may seem like unnecessary "Japanese" or "Esoteric" elements at first, until you understand the role they serve. I have given talks on all these things recently, for example ... the humility and wholeness of Bowing.

        Many aspects of tradition can be seen in new ways when the barriers of the mind are knocked down. Thus, for example, the Kesa, the Buddha's Robes ... though just cloth ... can be seen to cover and enfold the whole universe, laughter, cries of pain, old age, becoming and fading away ... life ...

        On the other hand again, it is okay to abandon or reject many practices. However, KNOW very well what you are rejecting before you reject it.

        Absorb what is useful and discard the rest. For example, I think Oryoki [formal meal ritual] is a great practice, and worth keeping.. Same for bowing.

        When tasted as such ... every action and gesture in this life is Sacred and Magical when experienced as such, from changing a baby diaper to cooking dinner to chanting the Heart Sutra. So, why not Chant as well as the rest?

        Some things I keep out of respect for TRADITION [the robes, the ways of doing some ceremonies]. It is important to keep ties to where we come from. Some things also have a special symbolic meaning if you look into them, so worth keeping [for example, a Rakusu]

        But other stuff, no need to keep: For example, I usually avoid to chant in Japanese or Chinese [except once in awhile, out of respect for tradition]. Tatami mats and Paper screens have nothing to do with Zen practice particularly [but I happen to live in an old Japanese building, so ... well, tatami and paper screens!} Some things I think are just dumb (except symbolically), like the Kyosaku stick. Incense is great, until it was recently shown to cause cancer. Many beliefs of Buddhism are rather superstitious things that were picked up here and there. I abandon many of those.

        The outer wrap of Zen Buddhism is changing greatly as it moves West. The greater emphasis on lay practice over monastics, the greater democracy in what was a feudal institution (arising in societies where the teacher's word was law ... oh, those were the days! ), giving the boot to a lot of magico-supersticio hocus-pocus bunkum, the equal place of women ... heck, the use of the internet to bring teachings that were once the preserve of an elite few into everyone's living room.Those are good and great changes to the outer wrapping (you can read about them in books like this one (author interview here: http://atheism.about.com/library/boo...olemanChat.htm). The coreless core, however, remains unchanged.

        Do not throw out the Baby Buddha with the bath water. Many completely "Japanese" practices which seem silly at first are worth keeping. ...

        ... other things, like some of the arcane incense, bell & drum filled rituals, take 'em or leave 'em.

        Gassho, J
        Last edited by Jundo; 09-16-2014, 02:42 AM.
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        • Rich
          Member
          • Apr 2009
          • 2614

          #5
          When it comes to rituals I'm a minimalist. But I don't have problem with rituals of the people I'm sitting with. I wear my sitting robe when I am cold. My Buddha statues are inspiring. Can you believe its been 2500 years?

          Kind regards. /\
          _/_
          Rich
          MUHYO
          無 (MU, Emptiness) and 氷 (HYO, Ice) ... Emptiness Ice ...

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          • Joyo

            #6
            I do not wear robes, my $20 yoga pants work just fine. It's a personal preference though, and I do agree $200 is a lot of money. I do wear my rakusu though. And, now after reading Jundo's post I would say I do have an attachment to my Buddha statues and incense.

            Gassho,
            Joyo

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            • Jundo
              Treeleaf Founder and Priest
              • Apr 2006
              • 40378

              #7
              Originally posted by Joyo
              I do not wear robes, my $20 yoga pants work just fine. It's a personal preference though, and I do agree $200 is a lot of money. I do wear my rakusu though. And, now after reading Jundo's post I would say I do have an attachment to my Buddha statues and incense.

              Gassho,
              Joyo
              I just added a sentence to the TURNING JAPANESE essay to underline something good about lay robes and such ...

              What is more, wearing certain special clothes and holding one's hands with a certain formality, placing a statue and burning incense can all work as points of focus to remind us of the specialness of this moment and Practice (no problem so long as we also learn the lesson that all the so-called "mundane" instants of life, great and small, are special moments, each a "sacred ceremony" in its way, from taking a bath to making a peanut butter sandwich for the kids).
              Gassho, J
              ALL OF LIFE IS OUR TEMPLE

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              • Anshu Bryson
                Member
                • Aug 2014
                • 566

                #8
                I wear a black track suit for my current sitting practice; it provides me all the comfort and utility I need for the moment. But I 'get' the 'dress-ups'...

                I have been a martial arts practitioner for some time; in part of my practice (a 'contemporary' method) I train in shorts, in the other (a more 'traditional' method) I train in a 'keiko-gi' (training uniform; looks much like the samu-e. In fact it pretty much is a version of the same 'dress'). My colleagues in the contemporary method talk about me being a 'pyjama wearer' but while they think that they are rejecting tradition, they don't realize that they have created an attachment to that rejection. For me, I can go either way. But, the ritual involved in getting dressed provides a focus for my practice. The uniformity means that all of us on the floor are equal, without concern for what anyone else is wearing. Even after practice, this continues; the proper folding of the keiko-gi marks an end to the practice, again focuses the mind, and highlights the work we have done. Training in shorts and kicking a bag is an athletic endeavour; wearing the gi and performing a 'kata' (a formalized pattern of movements) can be almost 'ritsu Zen'... Both have their purpose; both are valid. I try to reject neither.

                Gassho,

                Bryson

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                • Jundo
                  Treeleaf Founder and Priest
                  • Apr 2006
                  • 40378

                  #9
                  Originally posted by Bryson Keenan
                  My colleagues in the contemporary method talk about me being a 'pyjama wearer' but while they think that they are rejecting tradition, they don't realize that they have created an attachment to that rejection.
                  We also have to learn how not to be attached to not being attached! By this I mean a certain pride (I am prone to this like many long term practitioners) which is proud of our not being attached and prideful, kind of a "Look how wonderful I am folks, I don't care which way I dress!". (So many hidden sand traps on this Zen golf course!)

                  While, I believe, such kind of attachment is better than being attached to extremes of "I wear traditional clothes" or "I am a 'do what ya like' hippy", it also can be a subtle trap. I have to be careful.

                  Best perhaps for each of us just to follow our heart, wearing and doing what seems best and most appropriate in the circumstances. When wearing formal robes and a funny hat, just do that thoroughly. When wearing a business suit or bermuda shorts, just be that thoroughly.

                  A couple more Nishijima Roshi items, first in his most formal garb ...



                  And an old visit with Nishijima Roshi. His subject was wearing the Kesa (called "Kāṣāya" in Sanscrit). The sit-a-long was recorded in his tiny retirement apartment a few years ago ...



                  Gassho, J
                  Last edited by Jundo; 09-16-2014, 03:34 AM.
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                  • Jundo
                    Treeleaf Founder and Priest
                    • Apr 2006
                    • 40378

                    #10
                    By the way, I guess we should wear CLOTHES, although even that is optional. I sometimes mention the time I was invited to teach at the nudist Zendo in Florida ...

                    Skyclad Zendo


                    Follow teachings of Toni Packer and Springwater Center. The Skyclad Zendo is a naturist Zen meditation group which follows a non-traditional approach of open inquiry through awareness, mindfulness and attention. We meet every Sunday morning for two hours of zazen au naturel, from 10 A.M. to noon in the yoga room at Paradise Lakes Resort, 2001 Brinson Rd., Lutz, FL 33558-8367. We also offer seven-day silent meditation retreats with various teachers.
                    Gassho, Jundo

                    PS - Anyway, if you are sitting with other people, it is usually recommended that you wear dark (e.g., dark brown or black), patternless clothes, and loose fitting so as not to pinch the circulation. They do not have to be formal robes unless the particular Sangha group you are sitting with asks you to sit so.

                    PPS - At the Skyclad Zendo, you place a towel atop your Zafu. ops:
                    Last edited by Jundo; 09-16-2014, 03:53 AM.
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                    • Anshu Bryson
                      Member
                      • Aug 2014
                      • 566

                      #11
                      Originally posted by Jundo
                      We also have to learn how not to be attached to not being attached! By this I mean a certain pride (I am prone to this like many long term practitioners) which is proud of our not being attached and prideful, kind of a "Look how wonderful I am folks, I don't care which way I dress!". (So many hidden sand traps on this Zen golf course!)

                      While, I believe, such kind of attachment is better than being attached to extremes of "I wear traditional clothes" or "I am a 'do what ya like' hippy", it also can be a subtle trap. I have to be careful.
                      Most certainly, but should we not also avoid the never-ending cyle of: "I am not attached to this." - "Am I attached to having to feel unattached?" - "Should I be not attaching myself to my feeling non-attachment?" - Etc..? When do we just 'let it go'...?

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                      • Jundo
                        Treeleaf Founder and Priest
                        • Apr 2006
                        • 40378

                        #12
                        Resounds of a Koan to leap through!

                        Master Basho said to his disciples, "If you have the staff, I will give it to you. If you have no staff, I will take it away from you!"


                        "If you have a robe, I will give it to you. If you have no robe, I will take it away from you!"

                        Gassho, J
                        Last edited by Jundo; 09-16-2014, 07:09 AM.
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                        • Anshu Bryson
                          Member
                          • Aug 2014
                          • 566

                          #13

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                          • Kokuu
                            Treeleaf Priest
                            • Nov 2012
                            • 6844

                            #14
                            Dear all

                            Which holds the true spirit of Zen - Taigu's adherence to tradition or Jundo's notion of a 'no-kesa' way? Is Jundo sitting in swim shorts more or less Zen than Jundo sitting in koromo and kesa? Nishijima Roshi in suit or tradition clothing?

                            In the Tibetan Kagyu tradition the first three key figures in the lineage are Marpa, Milarepa and Gampopa. Marpa was a lay householder, Milarepa a wandering ascetic clad only in a cotton shirt, Gampopa lived his life in a monastery. Which one was the true follower of the way?

                            Gassho
                            Kokuu

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                            • Jinyo
                              Member
                              • Jan 2012
                              • 1957

                              #15
                              Originally posted by Kokuu
                              Dear all

                              Which holds the true spirit of Zen - Taigu's adherence to tradition or Jundo's notion of a 'no-kesa' way? Is Jundo sitting in swim shorts more or less Zen than Jundo sitting in koromo and kesa? Nishijima Roshi in suit or tradition clothing?

                              In the Tibetan Kagyu tradition the first three key figures in the lineage are Marpa, Milarepa and Gampopa. Marpa was a lay householder, Milarepa a wandering ascetic clad only in a cotton shirt, Gampopa lived his life in a monastery. Which one was the true follower of the way?

                              Gassho
                              Kokuu
                              Thank you.

                              All decisions need to come from the heart - many attachments in the head.



                              Willow

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