I think that a lot of guilt and remorse is really a way of trying to keep the past alive. That the reason I keep re-playing events and agonising over what I did or didn't do is that part of me still hasn't really accepted that I can't go back and change it. Forgiveness means giving up all hope of having a better past.
If I've planted beans in the Spring, then I won't harvest melons in the Fall, that's all there is to it. But that's OK. I messed up, and things didn't turn out as well as I'd hoped. So what next? Dig into the dirt, but not too deeply. Then, plant new seeds.
If I've planted beans in the Spring, then I won't harvest melons in the Fall, that's all there is to it. But that's OK. I messed up, and things didn't turn out as well as I'd hoped. So what next? Dig into the dirt, but not too deeply. Then, plant new seeds.
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