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  • Taigu
    Blue Mountain White Clouds Hermitage Priest
    • Aug 2008
    • 2710

    scandals

    Brad says he is going to sell his Okesa on ebay ( he is a great guy but useless with a needle...I am just the opposite, great with a needle, usless as a man), teachers are but sexual predators ( look at all the scandals in America). So...What to think? Let me tell you something, some thirty years ago I have sewn my first robe, I still do, as long as I liive I wish I will. No best seller. Not funky-punky-brilliant Dharma. Salaryman in the train.

    what is important?

    "Dogen's naked bones sitting
    Your naked bones sitting
    Bones sitting"


    everything else is noise, chatter, smoke.


    Back to the cushion.





    Taigu


    PS: As I was telling one of my students tonight, how can Brad let go of the kesa as he sits and wears it from the start? Like all of you...So no worry, really ( on top of this, he has never sewn a kesa) So...all is well. and please do ,isten to his teaching, a great teaching indeed.
    Last edited by Taigu; 12-12-2012, 02:08 PM.
  • Dosho
    Member
    • Jun 2008
    • 5784

    #2
    Taigu,

    Actually he said he's going to keep the rakusus and kesas, so he must have meant his kimono and/or koromo for sale on eBay. I suggested he return the rakusus and kesas to Nishijima, but I tend to doubt he'll take any advice I offer.

    Gassho,
    Dosho

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    • Jundo
      Treeleaf Founder and Priest
      • Apr 2006
      • 39983

      #3
      I don't see that Brad Warner said anything about putting his robes up on Ebay, and his comment (in a Facebook post) about not considering himself clergy is not so shocking. Our whole Lineage is very much about softening and knocking down all the traditional barriers in Buddhism between "Ordained Clergy" "Lay Householders" "Male" and "Female". I would disagree with him about whether we are "clergy", because we function in that role in my eyes. Brad sometimes describes himself more as an "artist" or "Zen troubadour" or "spiritual entertainer", the label Alan Watts used to describe himself, and Brad may actually be a more effective voice of the Dharma in such role than leading a typical Zen Group or preaching to the same choir as all the other Zen folks.

      I wear the Chinese Robes out of respect for Tradition, and only once in awhile at our more formal Zazenkai, honoring Tradition. One can sit Zazen in a track suit or naked too.

      I wear the Kesa/Rakusu as an embodiment and symbol for the Buddha's Teachings and this Way ... but I feel I do so merely as a convention of my own heart. The magic is what I place in the threads by my sentiment. It is not unlike how Christians might stick two pieces of ordinary wood together and find the embodiment of their Teachings in doing so ... And it is the same for the ordinary cloth of a Kesa. The Buddha's Cloth is the "Robe of Liberation ... Beyond Form or Formless" because we place such meaning there.

      Anyway, Brad is keeping his it seems, so he must also see some value in such.

      As to sex scandals that pop up among some Zen Roshi (the latest being Sasaki Roshi, now 105 but apparently a groper in the Dokusan room for 50 years), I once wrote this ...

      --------------------------

      Today's subject in our "BIG Questions" series ... "When Roshis Act Ugly, Small And All Too Human".

      Hi, This posting has taken me a very long time to sit with and write ... years perhaps ... Today's subject in our "BIG Questions" series ... "When Roshis Act Ugly, Small And All Too Human". First, let us set out the Indictment ... and it just scratches the surface. Nothing should be hidden. Many skeletons
      Last edited by Jundo; 12-13-2012, 03:13 PM.
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      • Dosho
        Member
        • Jun 2008
        • 5784

        #4
        Originally posted by Jundo
        I don't see that Bro. Brad Warner said anything about putting his robes up on Ebay
        Brad said, in a comment on his own Facebook post:

        I'll put the robes up on eBay pretty soon. Hopefully I can get some of my money back!
        Of course he could be joking, but he made a seperate comment about his rakusus and kesa:

        I'll keep the stuff that Nishijima gave me, like the rakusus and kesa. I'll also keep one of the robes because it has an interesting history. But I won't be wearing them in any clergy type capacity ever again for fear of causing more confusion.
        That led me to the conclusion that he meant his underrobes, but with Brad anything is possible (and I mean that in a good way for the most part).

        All that aside, my only concern is for people who did consider him their teacher. Many of the people who follow his blog and Facebook page will undoubtedly think Brad's words very wise and perhaps they are if they merely reveal who he has been all along (again, not saying that's a bad thing). I've complained in the past that he sees himself as an entertainer and he said exactly that in his original post:

        Just for the record, I do not now, nor have I ever considered myself a "member of clergy." I am a writer and an entertainer. It's true that I was once ordained as a monk. That was a mistake. I apologize for the confusion.
        So, I'm fine with what he said, although I'll admit referring to his ordination as a "mistake" did surprise me. I just figure some people will be upset and I hope Brad will see it as an obligation, clergy or not, to guide those folks to other resources.

        Gassho,
        Dosho
        Last edited by Dosho; 12-12-2012, 05:32 PM.

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        • Jundo
          Treeleaf Founder and Priest
          • Apr 2006
          • 39983

          #5
          I don't think he is serious.

          Nishijima's Roshi's students are a diverse bunch, I often refer to as the Island of Misfit Zen Toys (referring to an old children's program in the US seen this time of year about an island near the North Pole where all the broken and misfit toys went to live from Santa's workshop ... the wooden train with 5 wheels, for example, and the square basketball ... )...



          Nishijima provided a home to some folks, each very devoted to this Zen Way in his or her own way. They range from Brad, on the one hand, to Dagmar Doko Waskoenig in Germany and Austria, a very conservative teacher who is very serious about the Vinaya rules, and became a full Vinaya nun ...



          ... and many folks in between. I am an inbetweener on the "rules" I suppose.

          Gassho, Jundo
          ALL OF LIFE IS OUR TEMPLE

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          • Dosho
            Member
            • Jun 2008
            • 5784

            #6
            Originally posted by Jundo
            I am an inbetweener on the "rules" I suppose.
            And I tend to take things a little too seriously.

            We shall see.

            Gassho, D

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            • Hogen
              Member
              • Oct 2009
              • 261

              #7
              I see Dosho's point re: the pedestal that some put Brad (and all teachers, as well) on. I like and enjoy his writing, but I've never for once considered him a teacher nor do I think he would ever want to be a teacher to anyone! But perhaps we are all guilty (at times) of some adoration of teachers and think of them without fault.
              Hogen
              法眼

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              • Hans
                Member
                • Mar 2007
                • 1853

                #8
                Hello,

                it's not about Brad's practise, it's not about Sasaki's practise or Shakyamuni Buddha's practise. Only about your own practise. How will you act when you are in a position of authority. how will you act when you get to know about a teacher sexually abusing someone first hand?

                YOUR practise, YOUR life, all else is building a few new appartments inside a daydream castle.

                Gassho,

                Hans Chudo Mongen

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                • Omoi Otoshi
                  Member
                  • Dec 2010
                  • 801

                  #9
                  Yup!

                  Gassho,
                  Pontus
                  In a spring outside time, flowers bloom on a withered tree;
                  you ride a jade elephant backwards, chasing the winged dragon-deer;
                  now as you hide far beyond innumerable peaks--
                  the white moon, a cool breeze, the dawn of a fortunate day

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                  • Dosho
                    Member
                    • Jun 2008
                    • 5784

                    #10
                    Originally posted by Hans
                    it's not about Brad's practise, it's not about Sasaki's practise or Shakyamuni Buddha's practise. Only about your own practise. How will you act when you are in a position of authority. how will you act when you get to know about a teacher sexually abusing someone first hand?

                    YOUR practise, YOUR life, all else is building a few new appartments inside a daydream castle.
                    I know that...my question was whether or not people who consider Brad their teacher (and there are plenty of those) know that and how they will deal with him saying that he's not a zen teacher.

                    But perhaps Jundo is right and Brad is just joking.

                    Gassho,
                    Dosho

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                    • Rich
                      Member
                      • Apr 2009
                      • 2612

                      #11
                      Thanks taigu and hans.

                      If there is / was a scandal I think everyone is late. I mean the guy is 105.
                      _/_
                      Rich
                      MUHYO
                      無 (MU, Emptiness) and 氷 (HYO, Ice) ... Emptiness Ice ...

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                      • Daitetsu
                        Member
                        • Oct 2012
                        • 1154

                        #12
                        If Brad really gives away his stuff, then it is a perfect example for non-attachment.

                        Reminds me a bit of the famous story of the Zen master who burnt wooden Buddha statues to make some fire in winter.
                        The teaching of non-attachment is IMHO one of the most important Zen has to offer.

                        Gassho,

                        Timo
                        no thing needs to be added

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                        • Jundo
                          Treeleaf Founder and Priest
                          • Apr 2006
                          • 39983

                          #13
                          Originally posted by LimoLama

                          Reminds me a bit of the famous story of the Zen master who burnt wooden Buddha statues to make some fire in winter.
                          The teaching of non-attachment is IMHO one of the most important Zen has to offer.

                          I feel so.

                          Of course, I usually bow down to Buddha Statues endless times more than I burn them. However, sometimes it is fine to burn them, and one should never be attached. A Buddha Statue is also a piece of wood, nothing special. However, a Buddha Statue is also a reMINDer and symbol and embodiment of these Teachings. So, while not attached, I bow down and do embrace fully and honor the meaning in my heart. So it is with wearing Robes.

                          Originally posted by Rich
                          If there is / was a scandal I think everyone is late. I mean the guy is 105.
                          As to Sasaki Roshi, although 105 he appears to have continued this even these days, not to mention the past decades.

                          Neither is sex itself the issue. Japanese monks started having girlfriends and marrying a 150 years ago (actually many from centuries earlier, but not officially), and though many disagree, I find it a healthy thing … bringing this Way out into life. So long as we avoid the truly harmful, predatory, abusive, then sex is good, sex is fun, sex is beautiful.

                          And that’s the issue … not sex. Zen Priests in the modern world can date, have sexual relationships, marry if they choose (or be celibate if they choose, a beautiful path for some. Different strokes … or the lack thereof … for different folks!). The real issue is the misuse of power, using the cloak of bestowing a “Special Teaching” as a pick-up line, saying that crawling into bed with the “Roshi” or being fondled is a necessary spiritual practice and that the seducee is somehow unworthy if she refuses, confusing the aura of “spiritual friend or guide” with the role of lover … something that can be very damaging to folks who are often (not always) at a very sensitive, fragile, searching time in their lives where they are absolutely trusting and easily (not always) damaged and disillusioned when the fires of sex are misused. A further question is the culture of cover-up the allowed it to continue, or explained it away, for decades.

                          The following, published yesterday, is long but required reading for any serious Zen person.



                          And folks newer to Zen should not be discouraged by such things. For every Teacher out there with a shadow, there are dozens and dozens of Zen teachers I know who are gentle, caring, dedicated, sincere men or women who would not hurt a fly. A few bad apples (or good apples with blemish here or there) do not ruin the whole orchard. I posted this comment after reading it ...

                          May we all have students willing to write openly about our failings someday.

                          This only strengthens my trust in this Way. The more beauty and ugliness appear to the eye, a Buddha’s Eye sees through-and-through.

                          Gassho, Jundo
                          Last edited by Jundo; 12-13-2012, 09:59 AM.
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                          • Seiryu
                            Member
                            • Sep 2010
                            • 620

                            #14
                            What is a teacher of Zen anyway? Zen being seen as a direct pointing to the mind, outside of words and letters, actively being a Zen teacher or rejecting that "title" doesn't matter. Brad, helps a lot, in his own way. Whether he knows about it or not. It is very easy to project our ideas on how we want our teachers to be, especially if someone has transmission. (oooo big word).

                            I met Brad once. He just like his books and writings.

                            In the end, all it just pointers. nothing more. No teachings, no teachers. Nothing to impart. Nothing to take.
                            See where all this is pointing to, and simply drop everything and go...
                            Humbly,
                            清竜 Seiryu

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                            • Jundo
                              Treeleaf Founder and Priest
                              • Apr 2006
                              • 39983

                              #15
                              Originally posted by Seiryu

                              In the end, all it just pointers. nothing more. No teachings, no teachers. Nothing to impart. Nothing
                              And mastering such Way of Something-Nothing is greatly aided by having experienced Teachers and Sangha companions to help one along the way.

                              Gassho, J
                              Last edited by Jundo; 12-13-2012, 02:38 AM.
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