Buddhist philosophy on self injurious behavior and suicide.

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  • Entai
    Member
    • Jan 2013
    • 451

    #61
    Seido,

    That's an interesting point. I honestly don't know where I stand on that situation. Part of me gets what they were trying to do, another part wishes they had found another way to protest. Again, I wasn't in their position so I won't judge one way or another. I can only offer metta and hope that nobody needs to make that choice again.

    Gassho, Entai
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    泰 Entai (Bill)
    "this is not a dress rehearsal"

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    • Jundo
      Treeleaf Founder and Priest
      • Apr 2006
      • 40962

      #62
      May there be peace for Anneliese's brother, and for the family and friends he left behind.

      And if anyone is ever considering suicide, or you ever know such a person, do speak to a suicide hotline or other professional counselor immediately. In my deepest depression in my teens and early twenties, I did consider suicide more than once ... although never acting upon such thoughts. I am very glad I did not, for I would not know this beautiful life now.

      Earlier in this thread, I did post a couple of links that do approve (or have varied opinions) on suicide in the limited case of assisted suicide and the like for people in irreversible and intolerable conditions. Even so, that is to be considered the very very last resort.





      In a famous old Sutta story, the Buddha does seem to have expressed understanding and tolerance for a suicide by an old sick monk who was truly in dire straights ...

      Of all the suicide cases in the Pali Canon, the Chann’ovāda Sutta provides the strongest suggestion
      that Buddhism appear to condone suicide under special circumstances. This seems to be the case with the
      Chann‟ovāda Sutta in the Majjhima (M 144) and the Channa Sutta in the Sayutta (S 35.87). ...The Chann‟ovāda Sutta is about how the gravely ill Channa, despite the admonitions
      of two brother monks, takes his own life. The Buddha, however, declares that his death is “without
      blame” [13], since he died an arhat.
      http://dharmafarer.org/wordpress/wp-...-m144-piya.pdf
      That is a rare and extreme case, and most Buddhists would not accept suicide or euthenasia except in the most dire, hopeless, extreme circumstance where no other mental or physical option remains.

      The self-burning by some Vietnamese, Chinese and Tibetan monks does have a long history, and was practiced by many. Not so much in Japanese Buddhism, as far as I am aware. Also, such actions were generally criticized by many other Buddhists. The Tricycle article cited states ...

      In Chinese Buddhism, for example, self-immolation has a long and well-documented history. From written records, we know of several hundred Chinese Buddhist monks, nuns, and laypeople who offered up their bodies for a variety of reasons—though not usually in protest against the state—from the late 4th century to the present. The majority burned themselves to death, often in staged public spectacles. (Scholars use the term auto-cremation for this rather than the more common self-immolation, which means “self-sacrifice.”) The numerous accounts and discussions of self-immolation in Chinese records make it clear that many Buddhist authors did not condemn it as an aberrant or deviant practice but understood it as a bodily path to awakening. For Chinese Buddhists, in fact, auto-cremation belonged to a set of practices collectively known as “abandoning the body.” Besides burning themselves to death, such practitioners also let insects feed on their bodies, sliced off their own flesh, burned off fingers or arms, or burned incense on the skin.

      ...

      Yijing (635–713), a famous Chinese pilgrim to India, wrote a lengthy critique of auto-cremation by monks. He claimed that monastic auto-cremators were overzealous practitioners who were unfamiliar with the range of Buddhist literature and had failed to realize that the Lotus Sutra’s exhortation to offer a finger or toe was intended only for laypeople. The monk’s first duty, he said, was to follow the Vinaya. There was also no shortage of objections to lay auto-cremation from both Buddhist authors and secular authorities.
      Suicide or body torture is far removed from most forms of Zen Buddhism I know. While I can understand the sentiment behind it, whether done in someone's mind for spiritual or political reasons, I do not think it is the best way of either spiritual attainment or political protest at all. Better to live this life, and work to change this world for the better. I believe it better to honor the body, and not seek spiritual attainments in its abuse.

      Gassho, J

      SatToday



      Originally posted by Seido
      Like many here, I have been touched by suicide in different ways. Deep bows for those who have shared their stories, and to those who haven't but still have them in their heart.

      One view point I didn't see mentioned here yet was self sacrifice.

      If suicide was performed with clear mind as a means of compassionate self sacrifice to benefit other living beings, it could be considered by some to be different than suicide from dukkha. An example that comes to mind are the monks who self-immolated in protest of persecution in Vietnam. The goal of their suicide was to benefit others.

      I'm not saying it's right or wrong, just saying.

      Gassho,
      Seido
      SatToday
      Last edited by Jundo; 10-20-2016, 10:05 AM.
      ALL OF LIFE IS OUR TEMPLE

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      • Joyo

        #63
        Thank you, Jundo. I too have been at the same point you were.

        Gassho,
        Joyo
        sat today

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        • Enjaku
          Member
          • Jul 2016
          • 310

          #64
          I just caught up with this thread.
          Metta to all those affected by suicide and self harm.

          I work with suicide every day as a therapist and I've experienced strong suicidal thoughts myself in the past. There can be a view in mental health that "if someone really wants to end their life, there's little you can do to stop them". In my experience, this is an unhelpful and dangerous view. People who survive suicide attempts very rarely feel the same after the event. The last time I was feeling suicidal, it was noticed by my friends. One friend in particular reached out with such compassion that she restored my will to keep going.

          Suicide can blind us to the reality of impermanence. I try to help my clients see that life is always changing, sometimes stormy, sometimes sunny. In a heavy storm we need shelter and warmth while we allow it to pass.
          This Sangha is also becoming a place of shelter for me.

          Gassho,
          Alex
          Sat
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          • Jakuden
            Member
            • Jun 2015
            • 6141

            #65
            Metta to all those touched by suicide or suidal feelings in themselves or friends/loved ones. If we understand the thinking behind someone wishing to commit suicide because of chronic physical pain, then we would have to also understand it in someone having severe or chronic mental pain. There's no way to really know that level of pain unless you've been there, and even then, how can one truly know what someone else is bearing.

            Gassho,
            Jakuden
            SatToday

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            • Jishin
              Member
              • Oct 2012
              • 4821

              #66
              Buddhist philosophy on self injurious behavior and suicide.

              Hi,

              Sometimes suicide can be understood as a symptom of a body system that is not working as well as it should be. People do not chose to have certain parts of their body malfunction.

              That said, right or wrong thinking or feelings has absolutely nothing to do with this symptom of a medical condition. It is a symptom that can lead to death if untreated. There are many other parts of the body that when malfunctioning have symptoms that may lead to death if not treated.

              Suicide by in large is not a moral choice.

              My 2 cents.

              Gasho, Jishin, _/st\_
              Last edited by Jishin; 10-24-2016, 12:31 AM.

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              • Jakuden
                Member
                • Jun 2015
                • 6141

                #67
                Wow, I went to post a link to this thread on FB and realized it has been read over 16,000 times over four years. Gives you an idea of how many of us have been touched by this subject, sadly. And, thank you Jishin and all those whose livelihood includes helping those with mental illness.

                Gassho,
                Jakuden
                SatToday

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                • Shokai
                  Dharma Transmitted Priest
                  • Mar 2009
                  • 6469

                  #68
                  The high incidence of suicide was the one thing that caught my attention when I first entered the Funeral industry twenty-seven years ago. It's always been a very hush-hush subject and maybe it's time to really let it out. Especially that we are beginning to understand mental wellness better.

                  gassho,

                  sat Today
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                  gassho, Shokai

                  仁道 生開 / Jindo Shokai

                  "Open to life in a benevolent way"

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                  • Tom
                    Member
                    • Jan 2013
                    • 72

                    #69
                    On self-harming, it's been helpful for me to learn a bit about the neurochemistry of depression and conditions such as borderline personality disorder, which accounts for some self-harming ie cutting behaviour. I've seen the meds save lives, particularly my bipolar friends. Call the pills a miracle.
                    At the same time, what is what we'd call garden variety 'Dhukka' seems to be increasingly diagnosed as depression; doctors are handing out anti-depressants like candy. Aren't we trying to work with the dhukka? Isn't it seductively dangerous to numb the dhukka if, for example, you're just world-weary? Mara would surely have loved to slip a young Siddartha some benzedrine and maybe Xanax.
                    All very topical as my 100-year-old Grandma went in for surgery this week, ticking 'do not revive' on the hospital form. She's been campaigning for the right to euthanasia for 20 years, making it clear she wanted to go out in a conscious state and not brain-impaired or not remembering her own name or her loved ones.
                    Gassho
                    Sat Today.
                    Last edited by Tom; 11-02-2016, 04:05 AM. Reason: clarity

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                    • Kyosei
                      Member
                      • Feb 2012
                      • 356

                      #70
                      Have you ever heard of that?

                      Sokushinbutsu (即身仏?) refers to a practice of Buddhist monks observing austerity to the point of death and entering mummification while alive.[1] This process of self-mummification was mainly practiced in Yamagata in Northern Japan between the 11th and 19th century, by members of the Japanese Vajrayana school of Buddhism called Shingon ("True Word"). The practitioners of sokushinbutsu did not view this practice as an act of suicide, but rather as a form of further enlightenment.[2]


                      Gassho

                      Marcos

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                      _/|\_

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                      • Jundo
                        Treeleaf Founder and Priest
                        • Apr 2006
                        • 40962

                        #71
                        Originally posted by Marcos
                        Have you ever heard of that?




                        Gassho

                        Marcos

                        #SatToday
                        Yes, there is such a mummy about 30 minutes by car from here, at an esoteric Shingon Buddhist temple. He was what they call a "living mummy", in that he prepared his body and began the mummification process while alive, and may have been buried alive as well (only to be dug up and put on display for the last few centuries). To my eyes, he seemed pretty much bones.

                        The basic idea was frowned upon by most historical Zen folks (not all) in Japan. It is much more common in Chan in China and Taiwan and such.

                        More here on Buddhist mummification and other relics (a bit graphic) ... Most were not "living mummies", but just folks who died and, because of the "purity" of their spritual practice while living, did not decay like the rest of us. Still, I find that most look a little less than healthy without a lot of help.



                        Gassho, J

                        SatToday
                        ALL OF LIFE IS OUR TEMPLE

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                        • Kyosei
                          Member
                          • Feb 2012
                          • 356

                          #72
                          Thank you very much for the article, Jundo.

                          It's hard to think these man whose we have as references (even Hui-Neng!) were somewhat seduced by the idea of leaving their bodies as "relics", even knowing (for sure) there's no body, no relics...imperishable. Maybe this was a cultural habit?

                          Reading the article, they praise these masters whose didn't need nothing but some little ammount of the substances to get mummified, believing the process was a testimony of their habilities, their enlightenment. But wasn't it maybe just the climate conditions?

                          All of this made me think of a book I once read when I was younger, "The 3rd Vision", from Lobsang Rampa, in which he describes this same process (and covering the mummified master with gold plates) and when he had the opportunity to "see" his own "previous body", on the basements of the Potala Monastery in Tibet. Great book, even when I read later that it was considered a work of fiction by a middle-aged london writer...but how did he had such detailed descriptions...? great book.

                          Gassho

                          Marcos

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                          Last edited by Kyosei; 11-04-2016, 02:10 PM.
                          _/|\_

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                          声 Sei

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