Zendo and Mosque

[Taigu]

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How many people (included themselves) do some devotees put into Hell for the sake of finding Heaven for their little selves and avoid the wrath of their Maker and Judge!!!
Making their religion into a banner, fighting in the name of peace...

The sweet song of Rumi, a song of love and total acceptance and surrender, still needs to be heard.
The path of the crazy wisdom derserves to be lived.
The dance of non-duality to be experienced.

Followers are plentiful, mystics are few.

Meanwhile... It is good practice. But I have to say that my patience is limited when it comes to religious intolerance ( my colourful karma and lovely abused past must be one of the reasons :mrgreen: ).

gassho

The grumpy bear

[Hoyu]

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Hi all,
We have a small room in the hospital here for prayer/meditaion. I've tried to use it for Zazen but faced a similar issue. The difference being this small room has a lock on the door and a sign you can slide to say open or in use. Even so the Muslim workers who come to pray when I'm in there knock repeatedly on the door. And Im only doing 10 minute sits!
One Muslim girl yelled at a Christian woman for using a room that was in her words "for Muslims". She was corrected by another employee that the room is for use by all. Another Cristian complained that they would throw out any bible that would be in the room. Yet they have a big trunk with prayed blankets and the like that nobody would throw out or get rid of out of fear.
Since they really believe that they get one step closer to going to he'll with every missed prayer and I don't believe this to be so for myself(I can do Zazen freely and at any time) I've given up using he room
I also found myself getting caught up in negative emmotions about the whole thing. So I decided it was healthier to be done with the whole desire of doing Zazen at work.
Good luck with what ever you try Soen and keep us posted!

Gassho,
John

[Myozan Kodo]

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Thank you all for your advice. It is an interesting and complex situation.

In fact, it is not a group that comes to pray. Rather, it is individual Muslim students that drop in to observe their faith. It can be at any time. They are in no way organised. Indeed, they are from many different nations.

The room itself is designed as a place to use at any time for quiet reflection. However, it is also possible to book it for classes, etc. So, the Catholic chaplain books it for Mass, the Tai Chi group book it for Tai Chi and I book it for Zazen.

The Catholic chaplain, Sister Flanagan, says that some of the Muslim students come in and pray even while Catholic mass is happening. And the Tai Chi teacher says they come in during her class also. I think they consider it the only place that they can pray, and they must feel the room is designed for drop in use, in any case.

Also, not all the Muslim students come in. Many open the door and politely wave and withdraw when they see the room is already in use. Others come in and pray in silence. Others again come in and pray at a muted volume. There is no way you can generalise about how each individual approaches it.
But for the minority that disturb, it is annoying and, I feel, lacking in respect. I asked the ‘newbies’ if it annoys them. They claim it does not. Indeed, I now warn them that there may be an interruption during Zazen. Unfortunately, there is no other room available to us.
I think it’s a policy issue for the people that manage the room. They should be clear that if the room is booked, then its ‘drop in’ status is suspended for that period. Maybe I should take the administrative route on this one...

...all in all, it’s a great opportunity to practice ‘undiscriminating mind’.

Gassho,
Soen

[Taylor]

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Ancient ones might say: "Move like water"

I might say: "Know when to hold 'em and when to fold 'em". Comfort is a big factor for beginners, it was, and still is to some extent, a big deal for me when I check out a new place, even when I know it's all in my head.

As others have said, for them its Hell if they miss a prayer. For us?

Gassho,
Taylor (Myoken)

P.s. nice to be back

[Risho]

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I can be a little territorial and provocative with things like this but what about sitting where they usually pray and see what happens? Just spread out all over the room and see how flexible they are. hahhah

And yes I'm serious :mrgreen:

[JohnsonCM]

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That is true, Muslims usually follow the Five Pillars of Islam and one of those is to pray, I believe three to five times a day, one of them being at noon, depending upon what sect of Islam they follow. Shia and Sunni are usually pretty close in practice.

[Dojin]

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as i citizen of israel i should probably keep my mouth shut but the best thing you could do is move your time of sitting.
i dont want to say anything bad about islam or anything like. and even less about muslims! but i will say this, they do have specific times to pray so i doubt they will agree to move them. and besides maybe its my delusional mind speaking but i would just avoid confrontation since in israel everyone is looking for a fight, and i dont just mean muslims... i do mean everyone!

i feel stupid for sounding like a racist and intolerant, i try not to be but living where i live does have its effects on you.

Gassho, Dojin.

[JohnsonCM]

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I will add my voice to the others saying, sit with what is. Sounds to me like the Islamic students are sitting zazen with you, it's just that their zazen faces East and praises Allah.

[Rich]

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Posting the sign was a good idea. Now add some chanting. A little talk at the end would be nice too.

[murasaki]

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I'm sorry to have to say this, but reasoning with them will not work.

They have injunctions to pray at specific times, and missing those times is (for those who are more on the devoted end of the lax-devoted spectrum) a matter of heaven or hell.

While staying there might be good in the sense that you are standing up for yourself, I agree with what Hans has to say about protecting the interest of the newbies.

Out of curiosity, what authority lets the Muslim group into that room even while it is booked? In the U.S., these authorities would be allowed to move them, but required to give them a workable alternative space.

"Tolerance" has some acknowledgement in the Muslim faith which is emphasized in interfaith communications, but there unfortunately is a very clear line at which it stops. Buddhism is not an acknowledged faith in Islam in the sense that Christianity and Judaism are.

gassho
Julia

[Seiryu]

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I too think you are doing the right thing, by just sitting with what is..we do not always get the peacful mountain top we want. But this seems like a good practice to really be able to watch our minds when things do not go the way we want them to. Sitting with what is is exactly that. When in a quiet, still room, sit with that and allow that to fill you and the whole universe...when sitting with prayers from another tradition, sit with that and allow that to fill you and the whole universe...


Gassho


Seiryu

[Hans]

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Hello Soen,

just my two novice cents: Hang in there for a while and if it doesn't work, find some other place. It's perfectly okay to have a bit of noise once in a while, since one shouldn't even be attached to some Utopian notion of a perfect Zendo IMHO. Having said that, it has been my experience that beginners in particular are often so put off by noise that they just won't come back due to not feeling comfortable. Your own dedicated practice is one thing, but since you are in the process of trying to build a regular sitting group, you have to take the old saying into account "there's no second chance for a first impression" when it comes to interested newbies.

Gassho,

Hans

P.S. Keep in mind I am just expressing my own flawed opinions.

[Shokai]

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Taigu-oso;

well said, thank you for that

[Taigu]

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Soen,

You are doing very well. I suppose a very quiet, calm and gentle discussion could do wonders. And if they don't understand, it is good practice anyway. Keep doing what you are doing. The other way of looking at it is that you would never dream of disturbing a muslim prayer. I wouldn't. That kind of attitude is precisely why I have left the shores of one God only a long time ago...

Allah is greater that their thoughts about it-him-her...

gassho


Taigu

[Jundo]

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But in the end I’ve decided that we should sit regardless of whoever comes through the door and to whatever purpose.

So, we just sit in silence often, and sometimes we sit to the mumbled incantations of “Allah Akbar”.

Yes, we sit with what is, no disturbance ... even the disturbances.

And that "What Is' might, perhaps, be called by some "Allah".

Gassho, J