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  • Seiko
    Treeleaf Unsui
    • Jul 2020
    • 1030

    Going Public

    Sorry for running long...

    So for years my faith was hidden. If pressed I would tell people that I am a Buddhist, but I didn't shout it from the rooftops. I felt a level of oppression/suppression from being the fourth generation in a fiercely protestant family who believed their way was the only way. A few close friends knew. Only recently did I summon the confidence to go public on Facebook. It started me thinking - questioning why I had been this way. And making the step of being more open.

    In the same vein, I am thinking of starting to wear my rakusu at university. Some of the other chaplains are easily identifiable by their clothes. This is good for students who are looking for a chaplain of a certain faith. But wearing exactly the same clothes as everyone else just makes me invisible. People in my university community are easily identified as Moslem, Hindu, Sikh, etc.

    If I begin wearing my rakusu regularly on chaplaincy days, it will not be with the intention of showing off, but just to help folks find the Buddhist.

    I would be interested in comments from this sangha before I make a firm decision on this?

    Gasshō
    Seiko
    Stlah
    Last edited by Seiko; 05-07-2023, 08:31 PM.
    Gandō Seiko
    頑道清光
    (Stubborn Way of Pure Light)

    My street name is 'Al'.

    Any words I write here are merely the thoughts of an apprentice priest, just my opinions, that's all.
  • Jundo
    Treeleaf Founder and Priest
    • Apr 2006
    • 40372

    #2
    You know in your heart the reason to wear the Rakusu.

    Are you "showing off," are you embodying what it represents?

    I think I know you, Seiko. While there is always "pride" in something we might do (nothing wrong with a bit, I am sure that even Buddha and Dogen were sometimes a little proud of being Buddha and Dogen), I am sure that it is far far the latter.

    You better get ready, because we are coming up to the time to announce that Ordinations are proceeding here.

    Gassho, Jundo

    stlah
    ALL OF LIFE IS OUR TEMPLE

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    • Kokuu
      Treeleaf Priest
      • Nov 2012
      • 6844

      #3
      If I begin wearing my rakusu regularly on chaplaincy days, it will not be with the intention of showing off, but just to help folks find the Buddhist.
      I think this is lovely, Seiko, but I had been a Buddhist for around 15 years before coming to Zen and had no idea what a rakusu was! I don't think that wearing the rakusu is bad, but as an identifier, you might also want to add a badge saying 'Buddhist chaplain' which does not need someone to identify what a Buddhist symbol is.

      Gassho
      Kokuu
      -sattoday-

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      • Koushi
        Treeleaf Unsui / Engineer
        • Apr 2015
        • 1339

        #4
        I second what Kokuu said. Purely as an identifier, it does a poor job to most. Please wear a badge or the sort just in case until it *is* considered an identifier for you.

        As far as wearing it in public, I believe it’s a wonderful thing, and I never leave my home without at least the rakusu in tow or wearing it anywhere it won’t risk getting dirty. I wore it to the eye doctor this past Wednesday and no one batted an eye.

        Gassho,
        Koushi
        STLaH
        理道弘志 | Ridō Koushi

        Please take this novice priest-in-training's words with a grain of salt.

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        • Bion
          Treeleaf Unsui
          • Aug 2020
          • 4581

          #5
          I say, WONDERFUL. The Okesa was meant for that, to identify the followers of the Buddha and it serves as a continuous reminder of our vows, the Precepts and eventually, Home Leaving. Thich Nhat Hanh spoke once about the importance of people seeing the robe, identifying it and pondering on its meaning. I can confirm, what Koushi said, and others around here will also be able to confirm what an impact it can have on others to see the robe though they may kot even know what it is or means. Besides, the rakusu is PRECISELY for that: traveling, working, doing regular things. It is the purpose of the 5 panel okesa. As a purely personal opinion, I’d say: if you feel inclined to do that, do that wholeheartedly. [emoji1]

          Sorry for AGAIN running over the three sentences

          [emoji1374] Sat Today
          "Stepping back with open hands, is thoroughly comprehending life and death. Immediately you can sparkle and respond to the world." - Hongzhi

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          • Jundo
            Treeleaf Founder and Priest
            • Apr 2006
            • 40372

            #6
            Originally posted by Seiko
            ...

            If I begin wearing my rakusu regularly on chaplaincy days, it will not be with the intention of showing off, but just to help folks find the Buddhist.
            It made me laugh. This is, in my heart, almost exactly the SAME reason that I took my Kesa and Rakusu OFF today!

            To help folks find the Buddhist.

            Jundo: Taking Off the Priest's Robe, the Kesa (for Awhile) ... A Protest ...
            Dear All, I am taking off the Zen Priest's Kesa, I will not wear a Rakusu ... for awhile ... as a protest ... It is a protest mostly of myself, and my failure as a Buddhist Priest to keep the Vow to rescue -ALL- sentient beings, though numberless. I think that some things I said yesterday were greatly, greatly


            Gassho, J

            SatLah
            ALL OF LIFE IS OUR TEMPLE

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            • Naiko
              Member
              • Aug 2019
              • 842

              #7
              People who have never seen a Rakusu may be curious about it. This could be a lovely conversation starter.
              Gassho,
              Naiko
              st lah

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              • Shonin Risa Bear
                Member
                • Apr 2019
                • 923

                #8
                In 2013, my son and spouse were at the grocery store. Son spotted a rakusu and said, wow, Buddhists! They had a conversation with the couple and this led to my being where I am today.

                gassho
                ds sat this morning
                Visiting priest: use salt

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                • Nengei
                  Member
                  • Dec 2016
                  • 1696

                  #9
                  If you are engaged in practice, not doing anything defiling or damaging to the Rakusu, and it is safe to do so, then wearing the Robe of Liberation is wholly appropriate. It is helpful in keep your intentions on the Eightfold Path, and a sign to those who know that you are walking this road. It is not meant as an identifier, per se, but it does identify, again, to those who know. Our nyohō-e style rakusu is perhaps less eye-catching than other styles, but no less precious, meaningful or representative. It means you are trying, doing, putting into action your practice. As with most things, you will be more conscious of it than probably most other people. Worn consistently, it may help people remember that you are a person to whom they can turn and trust with their struggles and celebrations.

                  In your role as a chaplain, being visible is essential to being available. Perhaps good questions are How do I want to represent myself and my practice to this community? and What are the different ways I could consistently show and remind people of my role in this place? This might help you in considering how best to do that.

                  Gassho,
                  Nengei
                  Sat today. LAH.
                  遜道念芸 Sondō Nengei (he/him)

                  Please excuse any indication that I am trying to teach anything. I am a priest in training and have no qualifications or credentials to teach Zen practice or the Dharma.

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                  • Houzan
                    Member
                    • Dec 2022
                    • 517

                    #10
                    Can’t say it better than what has already been said.

                    But, are there any downsides to wearing it at the university? Any social/ reputation/ relationship risks?

                    Gassho, Michael
                    Satlah

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                    • Shinshi
                      Treeleaf Unsui
                      • Jul 2010
                      • 3663

                      #11
                      I think it is a lovely idea to wear it, while still treating it with respect.

                      Gassho, Shinshi

                      SaT-LaH
                      空道 心志 Kudo Shinshi
                      There are those who, attracted by grass, flowers, mountains, and waters, flow into the Buddha way.
                      -Dogen
                      E84I - JAJ

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                      • Tokan
                        Treeleaf Unsui
                        • Oct 2016
                        • 1298

                        #12
                        Hey all

                        For my part I have worn my rakusu at work (mental health nurse) but under my shirt or sweater, as it would not be appropriate to wear religious symbols during client interviews - balance of power and all that. For me it would just be the setting that would deem it appropriate. Nonetheless, I think it is a wonderful idea as I expect many would be curious and it would create opportunities to talk about the dharma. It is an issue I have given thought to as well as there may be an opportunity for me to do chaplaincy at the local charity hospital that is soon to open. I'm sure whatever you decide will be the right decision!

                        Gassho, Tokan

                        satlah
                        平道 島看 Heidou Tokan (Balanced Way Island Nurse)
                        I enjoy learning from everyone, I simply hope to be a friend along the way

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                        • Jundo
                          Treeleaf Founder and Priest
                          • Apr 2006
                          • 40372

                          #13
                          Such lovely responses. I love it when folks have the gifts to express things better than I can manage. Lovely.

                          I will just add that I do not wear the Rakusu most places, although I could. I wear it when it seems appropriate. Some priests wear it as their daily clothing, complete with Samu-e or other traditional clothes. Some only when the situation is right (Nishijima Roshi was sponsored by a man who owned a cosmetics company, and gave Nishijima Roshi an office in their building to do his translations. Usually, Nishijima Roshi wore a business suit without Rakusu in that office. However, when it came time to lead Zazen for the company employees, he would put on a full Kesa over his business shirt and tie, or a Rakusu to give a lecture.)

                          Here are some of the many "looks" of Nishijima Roshi ...


                          Gassho, J

                          stlah
                          Last edited by Jundo; 05-08-2023, 02:20 AM.
                          ALL OF LIFE IS OUR TEMPLE

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                          • Shinshi
                            Treeleaf Unsui
                            • Jul 2010
                            • 3663

                            #14
                            Thank you for sharing those Jundo, I love seeing pictures of him.

                            Gassho, Shinshi

                            SaT-LaH
                            空道 心志 Kudo Shinshi
                            There are those who, attracted by grass, flowers, mountains, and waters, flow into the Buddha way.
                            -Dogen
                            E84I - JAJ

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                            • Seiko
                              Treeleaf Unsui
                              • Jul 2020
                              • 1030

                              #15
                              My heart is touched by all the kind replies here. I don't know what I expected, but I am so very grateful for the replies I have received.

                              This Sangha is a beautiful place to be.

                              Gasshō
                              Seiko
                              stlah
                              Gandō Seiko
                              頑道清光
                              (Stubborn Way of Pure Light)

                              My street name is 'Al'.

                              Any words I write here are merely the thoughts of an apprentice priest, just my opinions, that's all.

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