Hi Anka,
Everyone has their own personality and experiences walking the road of Practice. However, my own experience in my life is that Practice has made me more "numb" when I need to be so, and more totally present and feeling when I need to be so.
The former is, for example, something like the calm and detachment of a lifeguard or nurse in an emergency situation. Then, one wants to be calm and collected, not pulled into the drowning and panic.
But other times in life, I can feel, empathize, cry with others, smile with others, and enjoy all the range of human passions. (Of course, it is our way not to be pulled into excess or runaway passions, especially of the negative kind such as desire and anger. We try to avoid that, although being human, these things grab us sometimes. However, neither would I want to be numb or seeming cold and uncaring).
I think that there are ways to communicate to others that we care and are concerned, but without truly getting pulled under the water. My own cancer doctor is good at this. I went to see him this week for my one-year check (all pretty good there, by the way), and he is really all about the test results, numbers and condition in a clinical way. However, he smiles just enough, looks me in the eye just enough, furrows his brows just enough, listens enough that I know he is not uncaring either. He finds the Middle Way.
Maybe in treating the diseases of "capitalism" and modern society, we need to keep such an attitude too: Not getting pulled into the anger, the excess passions which govern much political debate these days, but also empathetic and focused on finding some real cures.
Gassho, J
STLah
Everyone has their own personality and experiences walking the road of Practice. However, my own experience in my life is that Practice has made me more "numb" when I need to be so, and more totally present and feeling when I need to be so.
The former is, for example, something like the calm and detachment of a lifeguard or nurse in an emergency situation. Then, one wants to be calm and collected, not pulled into the drowning and panic.
But other times in life, I can feel, empathize, cry with others, smile with others, and enjoy all the range of human passions. (Of course, it is our way not to be pulled into excess or runaway passions, especially of the negative kind such as desire and anger. We try to avoid that, although being human, these things grab us sometimes. However, neither would I want to be numb or seeming cold and uncaring).
I think that there are ways to communicate to others that we care and are concerned, but without truly getting pulled under the water. My own cancer doctor is good at this. I went to see him this week for my one-year check (all pretty good there, by the way), and he is really all about the test results, numbers and condition in a clinical way. However, he smiles just enough, looks me in the eye just enough, furrows his brows just enough, listens enough that I know he is not uncaring either. He finds the Middle Way.
Maybe in treating the diseases of "capitalism" and modern society, we need to keep such an attitude too: Not getting pulled into the anger, the excess passions which govern much political debate these days, but also empathetic and focused on finding some real cures.
Gassho, J
STLah
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