Dear You (who is seemingly not me or the other guys),
We live in a world filled with division, frictions, conflicts of person against person, friends vs. enemies. It is the original source of anger and violence in this world, as well as racism, the hoarding of resources and our hesitancy to share with strangers.
We feel separate from nature, and as if we are merely time-bound creatures who mysteriously appear in this world for a bit, live some years, then vanish. It leads to our own angst, our feeling lost in life, neurotic, alone and isolated.
But is that the only way to experience self-identity? Will future technologies and medical means, as extensions and aids to our meditation practices, better aid us in realizing our boundless selves?
Certainly, we need judgements and divisions, distant goals to attain, resources for our own personal needs. These are what allow us to live, do and achieve. But is that the only way to know life? Can those judgements and goals, needs and drives for achievement all run to excess? Would it also benefit ourself, and all sentient beings and the world, for each of us to see through the measuring and divisions, goals and selfishness too?
My book describes such possibilities:
I remind readers: My writings are based on the premise that certain medical, genetic and other technological developments ...
(1) are inevitable and coming anyway, cannot be halted, cannot be ignored;
(2) have a high chance of being misused by bad actors unless we use them in beneficial ways;
(3) can be shown to be effective and safe to use; and
(4) can be introduced in an ethical way respectful of individual free choice, civil and human rights ...
(2) have a high chance of being misused by bad actors unless we use them in beneficial ways;
(3) can be shown to be effective and safe to use; and
(4) can be introduced in an ethical way respectful of individual free choice, civil and human rights ...
... and I ask, how should such technologies be best employed to heal some of what troubles this world??
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The third poison, divided thinking, will also be more easily transcended in the future. “Divided thinking,” in excess, rears its ugly head in two poisonous but overlapping ways: First, it moves from a simple “me and others” viewpoint onto seeing others as vile enemies, despised groups, hated races and the like. Second, it can turn into a deep, excessive, never ending, fundamental dissatisfaction with our life, and with ourself too.
We can eliminate the worst extremes of the first type, whereby anger and hate mix with thoughts of division and separation. Accordingly, racism, excess tribalism, the willingness to engage in ethnic cleansing, genocide, and the like will instead be replaced by increased inner tendencies toward empathy, friendship, cooperation, kindness and love of one’s fellow humans in all their variety. All could be achieved through changing our ancient brains, by enhancing our DNA for such tendencies, thus altering our hormones, thus finally, our resulting feelings, leaving us more loving, caring and kind. Making the right connections among our neurons, we will love or, at least, be more patient with our enemies rather than hate-filled, see them as wayward children for chastising, not as pests for extermination. We will seek to turn swords into ploughshares, and be more willing to turn the other cheek, more apt to do unto others as we would have done unto ourselves, a many a ‘Good Book’ preaches. Levels of healthy competition, rivalry and constructive disagreement will remain, but not to the point of scapegoating, hate mongering and homicide. Dictators and criminals can still be resisted (for love and patience only goes so far), but more calmly and clinically, like a surgeon removing a tumor. Even criminals will be treated with greater kindness and humanity, for they are simply suffering beings too. We will act with regret because we love more widely, even those we remorsefully must stop. Decreasing the hate and extreme anger, and upping moderately the tolerance in our hearts, will do just that.
Divided thinking leads us to categorize and rate things, including people and events we encounter, by how much they please or displease us. We judge everything in our life in some way: This is my farm field, but it is not fruitful enough; this is my friend, but he is not friendly enough; this is my chair, but it is not soft or hard enough. We divide the world into good and bad, win and lose, ally and enemy, ugly and beautiful, and a trillion other comparisons. Usually, our ability to do so is a very good thing, as we actually need to know if our farm field is under-producing to be good farmers. We must be occasionally cautious that our purported “friend” is truly a friend who can be trusted. If we could not tell friend from enemy, a ferocious tiger from a pussycat, pudding from poison, we would quickly die before ever reproducing. We would never have created all the wonders of science and civilization that our amazing, categorizing, judging, attraction/aversion filled brains are capable of.
Please allow me to judge judging by saying that the real problem is only judging which fits into the category of excess, and thus is used in unconstructive ways. Furthermore, beyond judging and dividing, we must learn to taste the simultaneous wholeness of all things, people, moments and the entire world free of any and all judgements and divisions.
Happily, the Buddhist masters discovered ways of training the mind that transcend the polar divisions of happy/sad, win/lose, love/loss, clean/dirty, friend/enemy, and even life/death. We can attain an underlying sense of nothing in need of winning, nothing lacking, nothing to gain, even as we keep judging win vs. lose in ways necessary for life, even as we keep moderation in those judgements and choose wisely … a true win/win situation.
One can clean a dirty monk’s bowl, or clean an entire polluted waterway or ocean, while profoundly accepting the dirty as well as the clean, possessing a Zen inspired attitude of: “dirt is just dirt, dirt is precious even when dirty, yet we clean it nonetheless.” It may sound strange to some, but one can come to appreciate the rusty tin cans in vacant lots, spilled oil on beaches, and the terrible sight of the homeless in our cities as each a kind of shining jewel in the crown of this fertile, vibrant, multi-faceted life, yet also pick up the ugly trash, scrub the oiled birds, search for cleaner energy sources, feed and house the hungry and homeless. Likewise for all the problems, big and small, in our personal lives and this whole world.
Then, even with such insight, there will remain goals and dreams, plans to make, efforts to expend, bridges to span, towers and new cities to build, even planets to colonize, but now combined with an inherent ‘peace & satisfaction’ with life, amid lifestyles of greater balance and moderation, tasting a basic harmony and gratification that underlies it all.
Then, there will be actions for us to take when action is required, responses to problems when problems present themselves, even times for marching in the streets and manning the barricades when called for, but partnered with an overriding, underlying tranquility, tolerance and equanimity too, free of falling into excesses of red-faced anger and needless violence.
Then, we will continue to experience, judge, and react to the endless, varied individual elements of life, while also knowing the overarching wholeness and union that sweeps it all in. One will know a harmony of all things, including you and me, even as we continue to function and compete in society as individuals with our own tastes, preferences and desires.
(to be continued)

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