We're All In This Together (18) - Recommendation: Seek the Wisdom of Elders

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  • Jundo
    Treeleaf Founder and Priest
    • Apr 2006
    • 41101

    We're All In This Together (18) - Recommendation: Seek the Wisdom of Elders

    A lot of older folks have gone through very hard times before, and the wise one (not all) learned a few things about getting through in body and mind. Talk to them, talk to your parents or grandparents if you can (okay, through FaceTime or the like) and learn from them, let them tell you a tale or too, get to know them better. You have time these days to talk to folks! Or, if you are an elder who has a story or two to tell, share with family or online somewhere. You can help folks.



    Gassho, J

    STLah
    Last edited by Jundo; 04-11-2020, 06:13 AM.
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  • Jishin
    Member
    • Oct 2012
    • 4821

    #2
    Grandparents have been know to tell grandchildren:

    "You don't like your job? You should be grateful you have one" recalling the great depression.

    Gassho, Jishin, __/stlah\__

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    • Kotei
      Dharma Transmitted Priest
      • Mar 2015
      • 4337

      #3
      "No toilet paper? Rub some newspaper pages soft, while you're sitting on the pot, or go into the garden and use some grass or leaves, like we did during the war", my mother said.

      Thank you,
      Gassho,
      Kotei sat/lah today.
      義道 冴庭 / Gidō Kotei.

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      • Tai Do
        Member
        • Jan 2019
        • 1457

        #4

        Mateus
        Sat/LAH
        怠努 (Tai Do) - Lazy Effort
        (also known as Mateus )

        禅戒一如 (Zen Kai Ichi Nyo) - Zazen and the Precepts are One!

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        • lapsus_linguae
          Member
          • Feb 2020
          • 8

          #5
          "I wore an onion on my belt. It was the fashion at the time..." (Sorry, couldn't resist!)

          As we do the rounds of the family via FaceTime today for Easter, I'm reminded how important it is to keep communication and story telling through the generations. Our son gets so much joy out of speaking to his grandparents. And they've all embraced being the elders.

          It's funny how your own parents can seem like such different people when viewed through others' eyes. Perspective is a funny thing.

          Gassho,
          Jen.
          SatLah

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          • Jundo
            Treeleaf Founder and Priest
            • Apr 2006
            • 41101

            #6
            Here is one thing I did while my mother was still alive, and I highly recommend to everyone. I wish I had been able to do it with my father before he left this visible world.

            I recorded about 8 hours of "60 Minutes" (I think our folks out USA know what I mean) like interviews with questions such as "Tell us about your hardest time" and "Tell us a secret we don't know" and "What advice would you give your grandkids in their twenties" (our son was still a toddler), etc.

            At first she said, "Oh, I could never talk much" ... then she filled 8 hours!

            Many of the stories, of course, I had heard 1000 times ... but many things I never heard before! Also a couple of "family secrets" (not too serious, but very poignant).

            Maybe, with all this time at home, we will rewatch the video now that the kids are older. Our daughter never met her.

            Gassho, J

            STLah
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            • Jundo
              Treeleaf Founder and Priest
              • Apr 2006
              • 41101

              #7
              A clearer picture of the old bell tower ...



              delete shorinji bell.jpg
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              • Jishin
                Member
                • Oct 2012
                • 4821

                #8
                Here is some very ancient wisdom in Hebrew:

                הוקי פוקי




                Gassho, Jishin, __/stlah\__

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                • Jundo
                  Treeleaf Founder and Priest
                  • Apr 2006
                  • 41101

                  #9
                  Originally posted by Jishin
                  Here is some very ancient wisdom in Hebrew:

                  הוקי פוקי




                  Gassho, Jishin, __/stlah\__
                  Oh, our May Zazenkai is all set!

                  In June we will have the Arabic version, all as our hope for Middle East peace. If only all the countries and people of the region could come together to Hokey Pokey!



                  By the way, the Hokey Pokey is one of the few dances that can be done while maintaining "social distancing." Can't do that with a tango, after all.

                  Gassho, J

                  STLah
                  Last edited by Jundo; 04-13-2020, 02:11 AM.
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                  • Jishin
                    Member
                    • Oct 2012
                    • 4821

                    #10

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                    • Tai Shi
                      Member
                      • Oct 2014
                      • 3481

                      #11
                      I would have some difficulty with the Hokey Pokey-- but I have enjoyed watching very much-- I thoroughly enjoyed the kids dancing, and I think the "depiction" of a young teacher was especially good. I could follow her very well in Arabic.
                      Tai Shi
                      sat/lah
                      Gassho
                      Peaceful, Tai Shi. Ubasoku; calm, supportive, for positive poetry 優婆塞 台 婆

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                      • Tairin
                        Member
                        • Feb 2016
                        • 2952

                        #12
                        Both sets of grandparents (now all gone) lived through the Depression. It left an indelible mark on them and to some degree that even echoed to me as they always offered plenty of advice as I was growing up.


                        Tairin
                        Sat today
                        泰林 - Tai Rin - Peaceful Woods

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                        • Tai Shi
                          Member
                          • Oct 2014
                          • 3481

                          #13
                          We're All In This Together (18) - Recommendation: Seek the Wisdom of Elders

                          Hi Tairian, I don’t have depression, but bipolar disorder and I am not cycling now nor have I in about 3 years. My psychiatrist says I’m well controlled, and I think that’s because of my excellent therapist. However, my therapist says I have done all the work. I’m meeting my therapist with video on Wed. noon. It’s my severe arthritis that prevents me from.
                          dancing.
                          Tai Shi
                          sat/lah
                          Gassho


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                          Last edited by Tai Shi; 04-12-2020, 06:22 PM.
                          Peaceful, Tai Shi. Ubasoku; calm, supportive, for positive poetry 優婆塞 台 婆

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                          • Jishin
                            Member
                            • Oct 2012
                            • 4821

                            #14
                            Originally posted by Tai Shi
                            Hi Tairian, I don’t have depression, but bipolar disorder and I am not cycling now nor have I in about 3 years. My psychiatrist says I’m well controlled, and I think that’s because of my excellent therapist. However, my therapist says I have done all the work. I’m meeting my therapist with video on Wed. noon. It’s my severe arthritis that prevents me from.
                            dancing.
                            Tai Shi
                            sat/lah
                            Gassho


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                            Hi Tai Shi,

                            I think Tairin was referring to this:



                            Gassho, Jishin, __/stlah\__

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                            • Tai Shi
                              Member
                              • Oct 2014
                              • 3481

                              #15
                              We're All In This Together (18) - Recommendation: Seek the Wisdom of Elders

                              Ah. Got it! Thanks Jishin and Tairian, and anyone who can shed light on where world wide economy because there are claims that all we will have to do is develop a vaccine and all will return to normal! Whatever that is. Personally I’d like to see more interdependence among all nations to tackle earth’s problems with Global warming, depletion of plant and animal life, and destruction of natural resources!!! I do not think we can return to normal and let the same situation repeat. I still like my comment about dancing and the little dog. That’s me sometimes when I try to dance, or have tried to dance lol, well anyway the Russians are flooding social media with spam and trolls in an attempt to destabilize world governments even more and not just the USA.
                              Tai Shi
                              sat/lah
                              Gassho


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                              Last edited by Tai Shi; 04-12-2020, 07:59 PM.
                              Peaceful, Tai Shi. Ubasoku; calm, supportive, for positive poetry 優婆塞 台 婆

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