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  • Kokuu
    Treeleaf Priest
    • Nov 2012
    • 6756

    Jukai names

    I have been contemplating recently about the notion of getting a new name at Jukai and wondering if this can be a cause of pride, or elevating the ego. However, on closer inspection it seems the other way around.

    From an early age we have an attachment to our given name (or some variant of it, occasionally something else) by which most people call us. By taking on another name it seems as though identity is not so solid. Already I am known by several names - dad to my kids, Andrew to my family, Andy to my friends and several different usernames on internet forums. It has taken this possibility of a dharma name to breach this solidity, though. Not only is the self not solid and unchanging, what I and others call it is too. Our name is not so much tattooed on our body as pencilled in, leaving space for the other titles we will have over time.

    Does anyone else have any feelings about this?

    Gassho
    Andy
  • Shonin
    Member
    • Apr 2009
    • 885

    #2
    It's currently a little past 6am and I haven't slept yet , so hopefully i'm still awake enough to understand your questioning and view.
    Well, it is a new label , but maybe not so much a new identity. But at the same time it is. The idea is that your name is a reflection of a trait your teacher sees in you. Or something to strive for. My name being Shonin is "manifestly clear patience". In my case it's definitely something to strive for. I did make the comment to Jundo that it was almost like a sick joke since I have ADD. Patience? Really? Yet each year I do grow more patient, it is a reminder to be patient with myself and others. and IS a lesson I need. Brain chemicals being what they are.
    You don't have to share your name with everyone. It can remain used only within Zen circles. But at the same time, there's no harm or shame in making others outside of our practice aware of this name, or even that you have one.
    If, as you suggest, this possibility of breaking of the solidity of identity. Well you said it yourself, it's not solid and unchanging to begin with. Who is this " I" that needs that identification?
    I think it CAN be a cause of pride or elevation of ego. But that can really only stem from a misunderstanding of why the name is given I would think.
    Really the spirit of Jukai is ,in it's own way, about a new beginning(with no beginning or end). The name represents the "you" that has chosen to live in service to others. Instead of making you feel mighty, it should really (to me anyways) be more humbling.
    Dave _/\_

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    • Shokai
      Treeleaf Priest
      • Mar 2009
      • 6391

      #3
      Thank you Karasu for the thread and Shonin for your sharing (more brilliant than sleepy }

      Like you say, over time we all have several names. My first one was supposed to be Dick in honor of the book 'Dick and Jane' that my brother was reading in Grade One. But, when they got to the church it became Richard and that's what my mother always called me. I got various other forms of that thru my school years. My middle name is John and I joke that my parents named me after the toilet and then my first Dharma name was Shokai (Ocean life) whereas (as can be seen in my signature below), upon ordination the 'kai' was changed from 'ocean' to 'open'. Does it make a difference? Does it really matter? We grow into it and we move on with it. It all depends on what's in your heart

      gassho,
      Richard 'the Lion Heart?'
      Last edited by Shokai; 10-08-2013, 12:53 PM.
      合掌,生開
      gassho, Shokai

      仁道 生開 / Jindo Shokai

      "Open to life in a benevolent way"

      https://sarushinzendo.wordpress.com/

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      • Jundo
        Treeleaf Founder and Priest
        • Apr 2006
        • 39276

        #4
        Hi,

        I try to pick a name that suits the personality of some folks or otherwise jumps into my heart. Sometimes a little tongue in cheek! Frequently, the name is an aspiration for what may someday be.

        But a name is just a name. A rose by any other name would smell as sweet. My Teacher's name, Gudo, means "Foolish Way" because his teacher thought him a greet fool I suppose. I am Jundo, or "Pure Way", because I am so pure. Or maybe very much not!

        I will be sure to pick a dandy name for Andy. If pride is a concern, then perhaps a name you will be anything but proud of.

        My biggest oversight so far was to pick a name for one fellow, Wind (Fu) Sword (Ken) because of his interest in swords and Kendo. For some reason, I completely missed (honestly) that the name sounds not so nice if said fast with a British accent. True story. He decided to keep it ... Fuken Bob.

        Gassho, J
        Last edited by Jundo; 10-09-2013, 01:51 AM.
        ALL OF LIFE IS OUR TEMPLE

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        • Shokai
          Treeleaf Priest
          • Mar 2009
          • 6391

          #5
          That reminds me of Marie's 'Big fork'n spoon' in Everybody Loves Raymond
          合掌,生開
          gassho, Shokai

          仁道 生開 / Jindo Shokai

          "Open to life in a benevolent way"

          https://sarushinzendo.wordpress.com/

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          • Kokuu
            Treeleaf Priest
            • Nov 2012
            • 6756

            #6
            I imagine Bob was saying 'Fuken Jundo!' Some of the Sanskrit ordination names can be problematic in English too.

            The best thing about the name is that it is a gift rather than something we get to chose.

            Gassho
            Andy

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            • Shokai
              Treeleaf Priest
              • Mar 2009
              • 6391

              #7
              With that I can just hear Andy saying, "Bring it on big guy!"
              合掌,生開
              gassho, Shokai

              仁道 生開 / Jindo Shokai

              "Open to life in a benevolent way"

              https://sarushinzendo.wordpress.com/

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              • Ishin
                Member
                • Jul 2013
                • 1359

                #8
                Hi Andy. The funny thing is, I thought Karasu WAS your Dharma name. Jundo that is hilarious.

                I feel like many things it is what you make it. If you are prideful that you have a Dharma name and others don't then yes it is a source of pride. If you see it as a commitment or cementing of practicing this way, or as an act of taking a spiritual name versus your given name, in a way adding to the negating the self then it is that.

                You don't strike me as immature or prideful Andy, Karasu, Dad so I think you are good

                Gassho

                Clark, Dad, Dr. Casteel, Pappy, Son, Triple C, Clark W Griswald
                Grateful for your practice

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                • Kyonin
                  Treeleaf Priest / Engineer
                  • Oct 2010
                  • 6739

                  #9
                  I have been called so many names that at some point I tried to correct everyone to call me just one.

                  At the end, that didn't mess with who I am at all.

                  We are who we are despite labels and names.

                  Enjoy your new dharma name.

                  Gassho,

                  Kyonin
                  Hondō Kyōnin
                  奔道 協忍

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                  • Bunny
                    Member
                    • Sep 2013
                    • 111

                    #10
                    Is Jukai an annual thing?

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                    • Dosho
                      Member
                      • Jun 2008
                      • 5784

                      #11
                      In a word, yes!

                      Gassho,
                      Dosho

                      Originally posted by Bunny
                      Is Jukai an annual thing?

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                      • Shokai
                        Treeleaf Priest
                        • Mar 2009
                        • 6391

                        #12
                        A nd that from a man ofany words

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                        合掌,生開
                        gassho, Shokai

                        仁道 生開 / Jindo Shokai

                        "Open to life in a benevolent way"

                        https://sarushinzendo.wordpress.com/

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                        • Bunny
                          Member
                          • Sep 2013
                          • 111

                          #13
                          Thanks
                          Gassho

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                          • Entai
                            Member
                            • Jan 2013
                            • 451

                            #14
                            I'm guessing that whatever it might be, I have been called worse. I was much more concerned about a "special" name when I was sitting "alone". Now that I am practicing within this Sangha, I'm not so concerned. Why? Who knows? But Fuken Bob...... Now, that's a good one!

                            泰 Entai (Bill)
                            "this is not a dress rehearsal"

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                            • MyoHo
                              Member
                              • Feb 2013
                              • 632

                              #15
                              Me too William! When sitting alone, I often looked at this site that tries to collect and register known Dharma names and wondered.... Now not so much anymore. "Spotted apple", potato-peal or something that translates in "my hopeless pet project" is just fine too. I think when we actually get it, it will feel like a fresh start though.

                              Gassho

                              E.
                              Mu

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